"I hold it true, whate'er befall; I feel it, when I sorrow most; 'Tis better to have loved and lost Than never to have loved at all."
-Alfred Lord Tennyson.
Within Financial Domination Relationships Unrequited Love can be a major problem. It is most likely a problem especially for the usually submissive Money Slave. Financial Dominants can experience unrequited love as well. However, maybe not to such a degree as the usually more submissive money slave.
Reality within FD is that most FD's tend to be naturally dominant (True FD's). So they will tend to most often view submissive personalities as those that they have a need to control. Or at the minimum to exercise a degree of influence over a money slave. So most likely a FD who finds her money slave not attending to her needs would most likely lose interest in her submissive very quickly and view the submissive more in terms of disobedient or even disrespectful. So the sense of love a FD would feel toward a submissive is probably much different than the love a money slave may feel towards a FD. Now granted, in a long term FD relationship that the FD finds her money slave wandering towards other FD's may feel hurt and pain and even feel a sense of disillusionment. Maybe even wanting to give up practicing FD. In that case as well may be an exception. However, still a FD generally has a higher sense of natural dominant personality and probably could recover from that relationship quicker than a submissive money slave.
In the case of a submissive Money Slave when a money Slave falls in love with an FD who does not feel the same sense of love in the relationship the pain can be very real. Especially if the money slave is of a sensitive personality. Granted, a money slave who does not get reciprocated can likely just find another FD. However, just as in all relationships after time and energy and emotions are invested in the relationship when the FD does not feel love for her money slave the money slave will find a deep sense of rejection.
Starting with denial the submissive may think: Maybe she is just a hard personality. Or maybe I should try harder. Maybe she needs more time to get to know me. etc.
What should a money slave do who has a FD who does not feel the same way he feels for her?
1. Try to be clear with your intentions from the start. This may be hard as most FD's may not trust a money slave. FD's are often lied to a lot in the start of relationships and so they may tend to be hard shells. But, if you are consistent over time and she remains cold or closed to you. You may have to face reality that the relationship is not proceeding the way you hope. Problem may get worse if you cannot accept it.
2. If you have a close friend who knows you are a Money Slave try to accept your friend counsel. And outside observer may be your best option to give you truth.
3. If all else fails you may want to try searching for a more compatible FD. The fortunate thing about being a money slave is that their is never a shortage of claimed FD's. However, granted almost all the claimed FD's are fake, But try and try again. I know I have.
