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Findom Experiences And Stories => Online Findom Experiences => Topic started by: Heima1 on October 06, 2013, 02:25:16 AM
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Is online financial domination easier to participate in than in person? It would certainly be more convenient and easy to leave, but does that make it better or worse?
Thoughts?
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It's better for me because I live in a small town and I don't want anyone finding out, so I "play" online ;D
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Having the ability of controlling subs from all around the world makes every experience unique, as you are learning about the many fetishes and cultures from a variety of nationalities. The exploration of niches and becoming more knowledgeable of all things surrounding them, can make for some interesting tasks; therefore enhancing the Domme/Sub relationship.
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I'm a full time student and I don't have time to meet up with any of the losers who grovel in emails to me. I prefer to keep my distance anyway...ewwww!! :o
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Good question!!!
I am finding things very frustrating on line as I have soooo much less control than in face to face play. I used to arrange a day or half day or hour for a face to face and I knew when it was, and most often I could dictate the content..... And as I mentioned in another post I'm someone who says I'm submissive then tries to take control.
Now, online i am finding I cannot control when I will get replies to emails or texts, when the replies will be and I'm finding it impossible to negotiate with Mistress Bella.
So.... Is it better online?
It depends what you are after. I wanted to be controlled. I wanted to have control taken away from me. I find frustration a very powerful emotion in a positive way.
However
I enjoy having a good tantrum, acting like a spoilt brat and Mistress Bella has tamed me through her strict fining policy for poor behaviour. So.... I'm no longer a brat.
Do I find it a positive that she has tamed me? I find it very frustrating...... That powerful emotion I like so much.
I'm loving it..... In all the odd ways that drive me!!!
Nigel
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I like online a lot better than RT ; because it's also safer.I had a bad experience with a stalker Domme; who thought I wasn't a true domme; she took upon herself; to call a few places that I needed to get bills; etc. I like the experience of controlling subs around the world; as well; and UK has a different funding policy than USA(so more money in pay-pal !) And; pretty much the entire thing is just easier for someone with not a lot of slaves in her area; I just wish half the online slave's were not fakes.
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I find that I would love online financial domination better than RT because there isn't any finsubs in my area. The issue is, more than half of the finsubs online are fakes, time wasters etc. And it seems that the ones that are serious are taken. I am fairly new to Financial domination, but am not new to dominating. I have been a dominatrix pro and lifestyle for a very long time. I just felt like I needed another area to control and dominate so I started learning and doing #findom. I am new, but not that new. I am currently looking for serious online finsubs, but they seem to be so far and few.
I do believe that online is safer and I like seeing slaves do tasks on cam, but at times I do long for in person ass spanking, cbt sessions...haha.