Well, firstly, I would like to say you have certainly gotten a lot of attention from potential mistresses albeit some rather bad ones but still congrats.
Second, I would like to address one major problem I find. Mistresses should be able to chat up subs they have never spoken to before. Approaching someone to chat is a act that does hold a certain amount of power in it. If we leave it to only the subs to choose the mistresses many will have to wait and vet through a lot of unappealing propositions.
I think that perhaps your problem is in the way you are approached?
Just telling you to be their slave without knowing anything about each other can seem sleazy and a childish attempt at trying to be dominant.
Lastly, I would like to say I have read your blog well not all of it I mainly skimmed through and I get the impression that you are a very experienced sub. I am a new Dom stepping into the scene and believe that it would be great to learn from a sub that knows what he is doing.
If you are interested, you may contact me at
literogirl@gmail.com of some chat thing here if they have it. I am new to this website too so I don't really know about it but by the time you read this message I should have figured it out.
Just to let you know me better, I disagree with many of the replies here, subs should be able to voice out their boundaries it's part of the give and take of a healthy dom/sub relationship.
