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Are Financial Dominants victims of sexual abuse?

Started by sgtjdusar, January 09, 2016, 10:45:36 PM

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sgtjdusar

According to almost all accounts the vast majority of Sex Workers have reported that they were abused sexually.  A good number of that % have claimed that they were abused sexually as minors.

Most studies have also concluded that Women who enter the Adult/Sex Industry do so as a result of that sexual abuse and relive the experience within the acts of the Adult and Sex Industry. 

Some Financial Dominants especially those FD's who have connections to fetish web sites and produced sexual based cam shows for example will often freely admit they are sex workers.

So that begs the question:  Are Financial Dominants victims of sexual abuse?  Further are financial dominants being sexually exploited by their money slaves?

This question made me think.  Obviously as a money slave I would prefer to be in service to a financial dominant who can meet my personal preferences and practice them.  So am I as a Money Slave in reality exploiting my financial dominant who would know I likely would not want to be in her service if she did not meet my own personal preferences?  Such as in how she looks, acts, her personality etc. 

Being that almost all of what is claimed to be financial domination is in reality not financial domination I would tend to believe that most of the claimed financial dominants are indeed victims of sexual abuse and thus would probably not want to be financial dominants if not for the reliving of their past sexual abuse. 

Any thoughts on this topic?    Please share your comments. 
JD

DominaCrane

Wow. you are so off base here. As a Professional Domme with previous sex working experience who also works in sexual health education, people like you are the reason I do the work that I do. Repeating unfounded information is a systemic issue that continues to marginalize and victimize otherwise healthy, intelligent, driven women who happen to work in the sex industry.

The unfortunate truth is that 1-in-4 women will experience intimate partner violence in their lifetime (source: http://www.thehotline.org/resources/statistics/) That includes sex workers, so it’s safe to say that at least 1-in-4 sex workers has or will experience intimate partner violence. Looking at the way our political and cultural systems criminalize and demean sex workers, it’s far more likely that sex workers experience abuse because of their work than that they enter the field because of past abuse. Many do survival sex work, not necessarily because they have been abused, but because intersectional systems of oppression including classism and racism prevent some groups of women from fairly accessing other educational, employment and housing opportunities. The “damaged woman” and “daddy issues” tropes that insinuate that sex workers choose this work because they have been abused is disrespectful and inaccurate.

Some may, many do not. We are individuals. you should work on your ability to handle your personal concerns by educating yourself and communicating with any potential Domme you serve, rather than making gross generalizations.

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sgtjdusar

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Thank you for your response.   Being that you are the only one who responded,  I again Thank you and appreciate that you actually replied to the topic. 

First off:   I respect Female Sex Workers and will support them whenever I can.  However, the reality of that industry is far different than what it seems.  And quite ugly.   I am still waiting for just one Sex Worker who is at least well known to state publicly that Sex Work is a great profession for girls to pursue in their adulthood.   I am sure one or two may be out there.  But, I have yet to know of them. 

However, If you visit so claimed '"Experts" on the topic for example.  Mrs Lobert from [Hookers for Jesus] they will openly state that Sex Workers are indeed past victims of sexual abuse and will make the claim that sex workers are indeed re  - living their sexual abuse by being sex workers. 

Within the Criminal Justice system one after another Women who have been arrested for sexual related crimes would openly admit and claim they are sexual abuse victims.  In a very high percentage BTW.  I am not saying it is true and accurate.  But, leading experts on that subject do state that.  I am just stating that they say it.  I am just repeating the information.

If you choose to deny it that is your option.

As for sending you payment for your time and energy of your comment;  I am a owned Money Slave.  My Owner would have to approve and instruct me to send you money.  And I can already tell you that is not likely going to meet her approval.

But, I do believe that if you are indeed a True FD you should have every right to the income and assets of your owned money slaves.  And if you are a True FD I hope money does make it your way. 
JD