Confessions and Consensual Blackmail is an interesting part of the Financial Domination fetish.
For the FinDom it's about having the ultimate experience of having FULL CONTROL of some pathetic pompous ass, because for whatever reason, they do NOT want that control over their own lives.

Most of the Consentual Blackmail submissives provide you with credit cards for you to use as leverage. Other's provide you with phone numbers, addresses and such. I prefer having as much information on the fucking loser as possible.

With any of my regular paypigs, I love being able to send them texts, write through email and/or, and send little gifts through the mail (at their expense of course). Doing this makes the experience more enjoyable and fun for both parties. I talk with them about life in general as well. I even make them become accustomed to the music I listen to. Because I want them to think of me OFTEN...

For me... It's NOT just about the money; it's about complete CONTROL of body and mind!!

I have recently retrieved one of these individuals who seek loss of control in the most extreme way... Being Consensual Blackmail. This guy is the first true scat money slave, which for me is perfect. As I have a creative imagination when it comes to that particular fetish. (To read more about Scat, go to the Scatology section here

I will be creating a post just for him on my site, when I have the time...
Which will give me MORE leverage!!!

I have already fined and taxed him on several things
I ordered a small gift on his credit card which will be sent to me first... Then HE WILL PAY for me to send it to his PO Box. I wish I could see his reaction when he opens it

You say you prefer having as much information on the losers as possible...... Well you don't ask for too much info at the time of contracting!!! I expected to have to tell you so much more!!


I LOVED reading this post! Thank you.

Thank You for Your post Mistress Bella. Does it annoy You that Nigelpooch forgets to properly punctuate Your name? Or is it more annoying random guys who aren't paying You anything even bring that sort of thing up?

It is very nice of You to consider Your slaves enjoyment while blackmailing them!

I do find Your enthusiasm for dominating Your pay pigs very infectious, i think it is that, as well as Your scorching way with words that has me so spellbound by You. I wish You did have time to update Your website more often, i can't wait to read Your post about him. Why don't You just make him to open Your gift back to him on Skype or Webcam or something similar so You can witness his reaction?

Actually, his failure to punctuate doesn't annoy me as it shows a hint of humility at his own expense... I like knowing there's others out there that like to pick out the iliterate parts in runts! Thank you for adding to his humiliation!! Good boy!!

Forums are for people to gather around and discuss various attributes of whatever the topic is that is being discussed. The fact that you're not my useless tool has no effect on that stature. Your comments are indeed welcome here regardless...lol

The thought of being infectious makes me have a very toxic and poisonous smirk on my face, as I take a vast amount of pride in what I do. If you can't have fun doing what you want to do, then what's the point? Keeping that element in play for both parties is equally important. Once one finds things dull, and boring then the important factor is out the door...

There's parts to this that aren't pleasurable for the slave, but there are many that are. Take the good with the bad... It balances out eventually.

I like your idea about Skype, I will be taking that into consideration... I can't wait to see the look on his face... *grins*

I'm currently writing a post about a past slave that I just kicked to the curb... After his is completed and posted, then I will work on good ol' Nigel's. Good things (or bad) comes to those who wait

Quote from: Nigelpooch on October 13, 2013, 04:42:09 PM
You say you prefer having as much information on the losers as possible...... Well you don't ask for too much info at the time of contracting!!! I expected to have to tell you so much more!!


I LOVED reading this post! Thank you.

As I have said to you before Nigel...
There is a method to my madness. As the time goes, comes more voluntary information. Information leaks out without you even realizing it. The more correspondance I have with any of my slaves, means the more I get to know their strengths AND their weaknesses. I know more about their past and present lives. Their day to day life becomes more and more familiar. Their thoughts, feelings, and emotions become known and predictable. I eventually get to know how to push their buttons at any time of the day.

How does the song go??

"Getting to know you.... Getting to know allllllll about youuuuuuu"

This goes with not just blackmail... It goes for ALL of my fucking little shits.

It's kinda what I do



Til next time...
XoXoXo

Quote from: MistressBella on October 16, 2013, 02:59:00 AM

There's parts to this that aren't pleasurable for the slave, but there are many that are. Take the good with the bad...

I like the non pleasurable stuff as much if not more than the pleasurable..... Particularly where fines are imposed for non completion of tasks. That's what being controlled is all about. If you are just asking me to do stuff I like, who is being controlled ? Not me!!

Quote from: Nigelpooch on October 18, 2013, 05:08:13 PM

Quote from: MistressBella on October 16, 2013, 02:59:00 AM

There's parts to this that aren't pleasurable for the slave, but there are many that are. Take the good with the bad...

I like the non pleasurable stuff as much if not more than the pleasurable..... Particularly where fines are imposed for non completion of tasks. That's what being controlled is all about. If you are just asking me to do stuff I like, who is being controlled ? Not me!!

You do like the very things that make you go into a tantrum?
You could have surprised me...LOL

Oh... I LOVE your avatar and your signature!!
It suits you... Don't you think??
It just shows you... It can be done only with in a couple minutes, and everything could be out in the open....
EVERYTHING!!!

You want to test me?
I dare YOU!!


Til Next Time Minion,
XoXoXoXo

Quote from: MistressBella on October 19, 2013, 12:46:46 PM

Quote from: Nigelpooch on October 18, 2013, 05:08:13 PM

Quote from: MistressBella on October 16, 2013, 02:59:00 AM

There's parts to this that aren't pleasurable for the slave, but there are many that are. Take the good with the bad...

I like the non pleasurable stuff as much if not more than the pleasurable..... Particularly where fines are imposed for non completion of tasks. That's what being controlled is all about. If you are just asking me to do stuff I like, who is being controlled ? Not me!!

You do like the very things that make you go into a tantrum?
You could have surprised me...LOL

Oh... I LOVE your avatar and your signature!!
It suits you... Don't you think??
It just shows you... It can be done only with in a couple minutes, and everything could be out in the open....
EVERYTHING!!!

You want to test me?
I dare YOU!!


Til Next Time Minion,
XoXoXoXo

Yes.... I want to test you.....!!!! Not sure I'm ready to though.

Whilst in reality I don't want everything out in the open, I do have a recurring fantasy where I do lose out in the blackmail game and I lose everything...... Does anyone else have that fantasy too?

I want it to stay a fantasy though!!!

I enjoy testing you. It shows you I'm brave.

And it's not the things that make me have a tantrum that I like...... It's having to do those things, even though I don't want to that excites me so much.... The realisation that I have no choice.... That's why I like blackmail so much..... Because the mind and body are capable of so much more than they think..... And it's only the lack of a choice that allows them the opportunity!!!

I very well understand what you mean Nigel. And yes it is a strong fantasy of mine too. The line between fantasy and reality can be a very thin one at times, yet when it comes to putting it all out there, that line can be quite the barrier as well. The trouble for us is we dread what we crave. When my Mistress allows me to play with myself, often my most violent orgasm is to fantasies of losing control to a mean and dominant, perhaps even crazy and psychotic Woman.

And this forum helps, because until your last post, it's easy for me to feel like I'm on my own and the only person who feels that way.

I would hate the things I fantasise about when I most excited to happen for real as the consequences would be too severe..... However, I desperately ache for them to happen without the consequences!!! Which I know is not possible!!!

Thankyou

Nigel

Quote from: iceblock on October 20, 2013, 09:31:02 AM
I very well understand what you mean Nigel. And yes it is a strong fantasy of mine too. The line between fantasy and reality can be a very thin one at times, yet when it comes to putting it all out there, that line can be quite the barrier as well. The trouble for us is we dread what we crave. When my Mistress allows me to play with myself, often my most violent orgasm is to fantasies of losing control to a mean and dominant, perhaps even crazy and psychotic Woman.

I have a few psycho ex's I could introduce you too...lol