Hi,

I'm a married guy, mid '50s, love my wife, have 2 grown children out of the house, yada-yada.

Unfortunately, i've spent $20,000 in findom , homewrecking and blackmail clips and calls and tributes the last several months to niteflirt, manyclips, clips4sale, iwantclips, kinkbomb. Fortunately, I have *NOT* given anyone my real information!

I have gotten most of the clip stores to agree to block my credit cards so I can no longer use any of them. My niteflirt account is closed. I have been clean for 2 weeks but the temptation is always lurking.

I find myself listening to clips such as "Lauren Rules Bankruptsy" where she tells me to liquidate my savings, 401k, etc., and the thought is agonizingly appealing.

Does anyone have any advice? Anyone successfully kick this???

It sounds like you have gone over the deep in and are going to have a serious issue kicking it. There are some Dommes that will help you scratch that itch without bankrupting you. While others will gladly stand by and laugh as your life goes up in flames.
All I can say is find someone who will support you. Like a mentor.

Just 20K?

I've spent over 200K.

To be honest, it is very hard to give up on findom for a sub. It is addicting and sweet, the feeling is unrepeatable in any other way...I explained it in my last post in my blog. If you want to have a look at it, it might be enlightening!

I can only suggest you, if you really are willing to quit without relapsing, to get professional help. There is no escape from findom

I tried professional help.  It didn't work. LOL

Financial domination doesn't always mean totally draining the sub's finances.
There are many Findommes (and I'm one of them) that may help you in managing at best your finances, allowing you however to indulge in the pleasure of being a paypig.
Having a wealthy, happy and satisfied financial sub it's the key for a happy, wealthier, stronger and richer Findomme.
You just need to find the right person.

im such a weak sissy and here in uk , i keep paying my master his money and want to give him more to like my car soon , im so weak and helpless under his control over me , but then i need it more and more , anyone who wants to chat more to me im at  bernie30x@mail2woman.com