Hello, I'm not entirely new to domination, but this is my first step into findom. Are there any newbie advice threads or does anyone have advice they'd be willing to share? I want to be sure I'm doing this in an ethical manner, and I also have no idea what sites are the best for accepting payments. Feel free to ask me questions as well, it might help with figuring out my other blind spots.
UPDATE 1: I have done some searching on my own time. Still no idea what a good way to receive payment is, but I have learned that starting out I'm going to fail a lot. Another consistent thing is that it's a good idea to discuss nearly every detail with a potential sub before taking them on.
UPDATE 2: Spent some more time searching, figured I'd start documenting things here in case anyone has the same questions I have/had. Turns out that PayPal will nuke your account if too much money moves through it or if the messages with the money get too lewd, same with CashApp and Venmo. Makes sense, since Venmo is owned by PayPal Holdings Incorporated, and CashApp is owned by Block inc, who also owns Square. Throne is great for getting gifts without revealing your address, but you might want to get a P.O. box too just to be safe. TL;DR: Don't use any of the mainstream payment processors, stick to crypto if you don't mind volatility, or use something like LoyalFans.
Update 3: I guess "ethical" just means letting potential subs know exactly what they'd be getting involved with, as well as not intentionally bankrupting them. Sounds reasonable to me.
UPDATE 1: I have done some searching on my own time. Still no idea what a good way to receive payment is, but I have learned that starting out I'm going to fail a lot. Another consistent thing is that it's a good idea to discuss nearly every detail with a potential sub before taking them on.
UPDATE 2: Spent some more time searching, figured I'd start documenting things here in case anyone has the same questions I have/had. Turns out that PayPal will nuke your account if too much money moves through it or if the messages with the money get too lewd, same with CashApp and Venmo. Makes sense, since Venmo is owned by PayPal Holdings Incorporated, and CashApp is owned by Block inc, who also owns Square. Throne is great for getting gifts without revealing your address, but you might want to get a P.O. box too just to be safe. TL;DR: Don't use any of the mainstream payment processors, stick to crypto if you don't mind volatility, or use something like LoyalFans.
Update 3: I guess "ethical" just means letting potential subs know exactly what they'd be getting involved with, as well as not intentionally bankrupting them. Sounds reasonable to me.
