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#1
I am seeking to be owned by a True Financial Dominant. 

If you are interested please send me an email.  jdcryts@gmail.com

Thank You. 
#2
One may ask with this topic:  "What does the Black Lives Matter Movement have to do with Financial Domination?" 

If you are a Money Slave or a Financial Dominant who is also into the racial domination interest their can be a connection. 

For example:  If you are a White Money Slave who has a particular interest in Black Financial Dominants (Myself included), the Black Lives Matter Movement can be interesting to you. 

Granted, Black Lives Matter probably has no connection to Financial Domination and the leaders of the BLM Movement probably have no idea of the FD interest.  If they did they probably would have a very negative view of the FD interest. 

However, for those of us involved in the Financial Domination interest we can incorporate our own form of Black Lives Matter. 

1.  Black Financial Dominants can seek White Slaves.  Black FD's can, Journal, Blog, VLOG, Tweet, Post and /or write specifically of their interest in owning White Slaves. 

2.  Black Financial Dominants can assertively and aggressively seek White Slaves to Breed with and reproduce.  Thus producing Mulatto Offspring.

3.  Those of us White Money Slaves can try to find ways to enhance our submission to our Black Financial Dominants.   Example:  Producing more income for them in maximum levels.

4.  Support the idea of Interracial relationships.  In particular, Relationships of  White Slaves owned by Black Owners.   (Generally a further point of the same idea as #2). 

5.  Hope that the BLM Movement would  move in the direction of protesting and stating that they want to Own White Slaves.   Then draw back from the idea of protesting against so called "Unfair Treatment"  by the Police and various Government  Authorities.

Granted the BLM Movement is mostly a bunch of illogical, and contradictory beliefs, ideas and actions. Much of it based on faulty findings, bad research, a flawed contradictory philosophy, Downright nonsense and outright lies.   However, within the Financial Domination interest we should support and encourage our own distinct form of Black Lives Matter.









#3
This topic will possibly also be located in the Political Forum since it does involve to some degree Political Discussion.  This Topic is justifiably located here due to that it is also primarily a element in the practice of the art of True Financial Domination.

It is likely if you are a True Financial Dominant who happens to also own the more intelligent and educated Money Slaves you probably notice (If you are also at least average in intelligence)  Which BTW.  Being a True FD does require at least some degree of at least average intelligence. 

Anyway, if you as a True FD own Money Slaves who are at least moderately intelligent and who are educated.  You probably notice that your Money Slave does address topics related to Politics and Current Events.   How should you as a True FD handle those conversations?

1.  You likely would be seen as impressive if you can engage your money slave in political discussion.  What that generally means as a True FD who owns such Money Slaves is this:   You should direct, and in fact order how your Slave Votes and how your Slave  thinks politically.  This may mean having to alter how your Slave forms Political Opinion.  This can at times be a difficult task.  Say, especially if you as a True FD hold a Liberal Political Position and your Slave is more on the Libertarian or Conservative side of the Political spectrum. 

Lets face some reality here:  Most True Money Slaves will likely be Conservative or Libertarian.  If you are as True FD are Liberal or Libertarian this could be challenging for you.  You want to exercise your authority over your Slave(s).  So to do that you must order how your Slave Votes. 

2.  Do not tolerate your Slaves disobeying you.   Orders how a Slave Vote is just that:  Your Orders to your Slave.  If your Slave challenges you you should take that as a challenge of your authority and influence of that Slave.  Granted, this may be a gradual process.  But, you as True FD need to be confident that you have the authority to make life decisions for your Slave.  Having a Slave Vote differently then how you would want to vote should be seen as a affront to how you think and form opinions.   Thus very offensive to you.  Do not allow your Slaves to Vote in elections contrary to how you would Vote. 

So what about the U.S Presidential Election of 2016? 

Being that the premise of True Financial Domination is not much seen in the U.S Presidential Election.  Neither of the Major Party Candidates are supporters of Financial Domination. it becomes a bit of a challenge for us in the FD Interest of how and who to Vote for.

One important area is if you are into Racial Domination as a enhancer to Financial Domination such as I am, personally would think one major area would be on Immigration.  As a Money Slave and who also has a very high preference for Non White Financial Domination.  With a particular preference for Black, East Asian and Latina Financial Dominants the topic area of Free and Open Immigration comes to importance.  That being the case I would look to a the Political Candidate who is most likely to be lenient on the topic of Immigration.  That being the case since Donald Trump has been quite vocal on Stopping or Heavily Restricting Undocumented Immigration I would tend to support the Democrat Hillary Clinton, 

So if your are a True Financial Dominant at this time those of us in the Financial Domination interest should support Hillary Clinton for U.S President. 

3.  If you are a True Financial Dominant you should post Tweets, post Forums, DM's, Blog Entries and VLOGS that you as a True FD endorse Hillary Clinton and that you are ordering your Slaves to Vote Likewise.

BTW.  This is a great topic for those True FD's from U.K, Canada, E.U  etc who own U.S  Slaves.  A great opportunity to exercise authority and have a influence on the U.S Election by ordering how your U.S Slave Votes.  This is even more important if you own Slaves in the so called "Battleground States"  Pennsylvania, Ohio, New Jersey, Virginia, North Carolina, Florida, Kentucky, Michigan, Wisconsin, Minnesota, Colorado, Texas, New Mexico, Arizona, Nevada and even Washington State.

#4
Hello.

Another lesson on how to make sure you avoid the trap of becoming a fake financial dominant. 

1.  If you refuse to take advice from a Money Slave on how to be a True Financial Dominant., and more so if you refuse to take the advice of a lifelong experienced Money Slave you are likely a Fake Financial Dominant.  If that is you I can guarantee every True FD and every real Money Slave would prefer you to leave the FD Interest.   Maybe try the Sugar Baby Sites.  That is where the real big money is anyways. 

2.  If you think you will get a lot of money for a long time you are not a True FD.  Most True FD's have probably no more than a few real Money Slaves.  Some may have only one real Money Slave.  Since almost all Money Slaves are married and have families they obviously would have living expenses.  The result:  Limited funds to send to a FD.  Also since many money slaves are not aggressive go getters they are likely not among the  higher income levels.  They probably have no more than a middle class income.  So if you are a True FD you would know that and probably would expect some money.  However, in reality you probably would not collect any more than maybe $500.00 a month each from even your long/life term Money Slaves.   If you can get $1,000.00 a month or more from your life term Slave you probably are the exception.    However, if you get about three loyal and consistent long/life term slaves you probably can do very well just as a True FD.    I would say in reality most FD's probably do not get over $50.00 a week average from each of their owned slaves.

3.  Stop using the word   "Pay Pig".  Look here is some truth.  If you are a True FD you cannot be paid to be a True FD.  A Money Slave cannot Pay You.  The reason is if you own a Money Slave the money your Slave produces should already be considered your money.  The Slave is to inform you of his income and you try to assist your Slave in determining his living expenses so as to ensure you get your maximum $.    You need to stop thinking you are being paid.  As you cannot pay yourself from money that is already your money.    Get the Terms:  Pay Me and Pay Pig out of your vocabulary.

4.  Know what you are doing.   You do not need to be mean and nasty.  Have some class.  Get rid of Penis Pics. 

5.  You as a dominant cannot have a Alpha.  If you do, that makes you a Beta.  You would be the submissive to a Dominant Man.  You as a True FD should be appalled at the idea of a dominant man.  You should prefer submissive men.    You cannot have a Cuckold Relationship unless your Slave is your Husband or Long Term S/O.  (Which is a stretch for real cuckolds BTW). 

More free advice to come. 

Happy Times! 

#5
Chastity.  The so called Chastity interest.  Or as some might call it CBT or the Key Holder type Dommes.

The Key Holder Domme supposedly has a Key mailed to her or given to her by a so called "Slave" who puts his Penis into a lock type device which supposedly prevents erections or masturbation.  The Key Holder Domme supposedly then holds the key for a predetermined amount of time or some form of payment agreement is fulfilled.   In some cases the so called domme wears the key as a part of necklace, bracelet, anklet etc. 

I have always been skeptical of these types of relationships within the FD interest.    Often very critical of them. 

The reasons of my skepticism are multiple.  But some of the more observable reasons are based on a few factors.

Of all the so called "Chaste Slaves" or those in the so called "CBT" (Cock, Ball Torture), interest, of the men within that interest all seem to give me the impression of being very sexual.  Which to me would be contradictory to the whole notion of being chaste.  You would think someone who is Chaste, or even Celibate the last thing a true Chaste or Chastity practitioner would be found on is a Adult Material Website, Blog, Forum etc.  I mean if your Chaste why would you be on a site that is clearly adult related material?  It makes no logical sense to do that and contradicts the whole idea if you are indeed chaste.  If you are Chaste simply abstain from any sexual related material. 

A similar analogy would be like putting an Alcoholic inside a liquor store and telling him not to drink the Alcohol.  You would think eventually the alcoholic will sneak a drink somewhere and somehow.  The same logic would be someone claiming he is into chastity then involves himself with adult sexually explicit material.  Lets face it.  Talking about your Penis being locked in a Cage is a sexual topic!   Since that is the case, it is not Chastity. The exception would be unless you are in total abstinence from anything sexual related. 

A True Practitioner of Chastity would abstain and would not be on a Adult Material website, Forum, Blog  etc and thus would not be in communication with a Key Holder type Domme. 

Some may claim to be truly into chastity as way to be submissive.  If that is your belief then why not go all the way?  Why not prove you are truly into chastity?  Prove it by being castrated.

Look:  True FD is a real relationship.  If you are a True FD then you will seek a real relationship with your slave.  And by a real relationship it will be lifelong.  And being that it is a real, lifelong relationship you would practice intimacy in the relationship.  Which is how you truly own a Slave.   Thus that being the case,  if you are able to you should be reproducing to symbolize your relationship is lifelong.  Even if just a Pseudo type Marriage. 

Totally contradictory to the Chastity interest.  If you are into Chastity you cannot be practicing True FD.  The notions contradict each other. 

This also goes for the so called "Small Penis Humiliation interest or the so called "Small Penis Tax"  A True FD wants a slave who she can utilize to reproduce.  So the last thing a True FD wants is a Slave with a small Penis.  (Small meaning Flaccid, and incapable of Vaginal Penetration).

Post comments below. 



#6
1.  Know you are a Financial Dominant.   What that means is:   Be confident that you are a True Financial Dominant. 

2.  Consider any money you receive as a Financial Dominant is money that rightfully is your money.   That being the case you cannot be paid to be a Financial Dominant.  Stop using the "Pay Me" Term.

3.  You must seek True Real Money Slaves.    Not the fake or wannabes.  But, real submissive's who feel a need to serve you.  Get off those Cam Show sites!  They are not FD! 

4.  You must only want real life term relationships with your slaves.  You must be willing to meet, form a real relationship and possibly even breed with them.  This is counter to the Chastity (Key holder) type Dommes.  If you are into Chastity or demand Chaste Slaves you are not practicing True FD.   if you have a so called "Chaste"  (Chastity) Slave or demand chastity your so called Chastity Slave would be living as a celibate eunuch.  Thus should not be interested in any kind of activity with Women.  Chastity is not True FD!  As it is contradictory to the whole idea of a sexual relationship.  Get it right! 

5.  You must be willing to meet in person your slaves.  If you are terrified of your Slaves or you fear your Slaves it is because you have no control over your slave.  Thus you in reality do not own that slave.  Which then means you are not a True Financial Dominant.

6.  If you are able, you must be willing to breed with your slave.   Breeding is the only way to guarantee that your absolute commitment to be a True FD and for such a relationship to be life long and breeding (If you are able) is the only way to guarantee that your FD relationship is for life.   Get off Birth Control! 

7.  You must communicate.  If you hate communicating the FD interest is not for you.  Just as in any relationship communication is a must.  In fact, with a long distance FD relationship you must be willing to maintain the relationship.  And you do that by communicating.   You must have 24/7 access to your Slave and vice versa and be able to communicate 24/7 when it is reasonable. 

8.  You must be able to know basic information about your Slave.  In a FD Relationship you must know your Slave income and assets.  You should also be able to have at least some access to your Slave income and accounts.  This includes Account Passwords.  However, this can be tricky as you must be trusted by your slave and you must also trust your slave to give you correct and accurate income information. 

9.  Do not allow your Slave /Sub to send you Penis Pics.  Penis Pic senders are simply Preverts.  If you have Penis Pics in your Profiles and Blogs.  Delete them.  This includes the so called Small Penis Tax which many U.K Fake FD's post.  Instagram is full of them. 

More to come. 


#7
As a a White Money Slave I have always had a very high preference for non White Financial Dominants.  Mostly, for Black, East Asian and Hispanic Financial Dominants.  When I refer to East Asian Financial Dominants the reference is mostly to FD's of Korean, Chinese, Philippine, Taiwan, Vietnamese, Laotian, Thai, Cambodian, Burmese and maybe East Indian and Sri Lankan heritage FD's. 

Though I have at times served White FD's, I have always found my preference is for the Non White FD's.  Especially my preference for Black FD's.  I have always found that to me, a Black FD who knows how to be a True FD can enhance my need and desire to be in service to her.  Combined with my belief in Black Supremacy and a combined belief that Whites should be slaves to Blacks makes that interest for me a lot higher.

However, despite my preference for Black FD's.  I have not had much long term success with Black FD's.  Just in my own experience of the Black FD's I have served they tend to be  lazy, indifferent. distant and detached and at times to me they seem very disinterested in the practice of the art of FD. 

The Asian FD's I have experienced seem to be of a very cold personality.  Though tend to be more educated.

Hispanic FD's seem to be absent minded and tend to prefer very short term FD relationships.  Sort of like the Insta Domme who wants to be paid then disappear. 

I know of White FD's who are like the above as well,  Nonetheless.  I still think a Black FD has a unique ability to enhance my submissive nature.  The problem is in finding a Black FD who I feel knows what she is doing and who know how to a be True FD. 

In any case,  my preference remains for Black FD's.  Maybe it is because in my my mind I prefer the look of Mulatto offspring that should result in such a relationship. 

Any thoughts on the subject of racial domination incorporated into a financial domination relationship?
#8
Once again in the United States it is election season.  The year 2016 is a Presidential election year.  Not only for President but also elections for the House of Representatives.  And in many U.S States elections for Governor and U.S Senator.  Their are also local elections and votes on referendums.

Being that Financial Domination generally involves the Financial Dominant instructing, ordering or at the very minimum, being some sort of influence in the life of her owned slave.  Should a Financial Dominant order how her slave(s) vote in elections? 

In my opinion a True Financial Dominant should do just that.  However,  what about a True FD who is a True FD who has never voted and has very little or even just a marginal interest in the election process?   I have been in the FD interest basically all my life and I can tell you of all the FD's I have seen come and go.  Especially among the Insta Dommes, very few of them have any such interest.  Granted, their have been some True FD's who do express a Political interest.  However, they tend to be the rare exception.  Lets face it:  Most FD's are very self centered and narcissistic.  If they think a issue does not directly benefit them that they cannot visually see they usually do not have any such interest to be involved or to form an opinion on. 

A second lets face it:  Most claimed FD's probably would fail a Middle School Level Civics Test.  They probably are not even Registered to Vote. 

Personally, I think the True FD's who do know politics and participate in the election process show they have a higher level of intelligence and know the issues. 

So for me,  I would prefer a True FD who can order me how to vote.  To me that is what True Submission to a Dominant is in real practice. 

Also if you are a foreign FD with U.S Money Slaves that is a big way you can prove your authority and dominance over your slaves by ordering how they vote.

In summary: 

If you are a True Financial Dominant and you know you are weak in the area of current events, political issues, elections, etc.  If you want to attract the real good, quality  money slaves who would stay with you for life.  The money slaves who are involved in politics, who have an interest in those current events are probably much more loyal, much more stable and less preverted then most.  Those are the quality slaves who will keep adding to your Bank Account for years to come.  Those are the kinds of slaves who genuinely have an interest in you.

You will attract them by practicing FD with class.  Know current events.  Read up on politics.  Read economic news etc.  If you want good quality slaves you have to be of a good, sound quality too. 
#9
Financial Domination Discussion / A review: Findoms.com
February 07, 2016, 09:07:22 AM
Please bear in mind.  This is only a review of the website known as findoms.com.  This is only my personal opinion of the site findoms.com.  It is only based on my own reviews and my own thoughts on the site.  You may have other opinions of findoms.com.  If so you are invited to reply in the comments. 

Being that I have been involved in the FD interest basically all my life I have seen FD Blogs, Forums  and Websites come and go.  For example:  Their was once a site called My Financial Domination Site.  (MFDS)  That site went off line a few years ago.  Before that in the early 2000s up to about 2005, their was a popular FD Forum site called Financial Slavery . Net 

In my own opinion FS. Net Was probably the best on the FD interest.   Not a single FD Forum, Site or Blog site has yet matched it.  FS. Net was by far not perfect and had issues with trolls and the hostility as well.  But, IMO it was the best so far.  FS. Net went of line about 2005 after the Web Site owner understandably so, became disillusioned with the FD interest.

Fin Doms .com in my opinion is a fake FD site.  A home for Preverts, Freak, Morons, Knuckleheads, Penis Pic Senders and the like.  It is not a FD site and I have yet to see a True FD on that website.  It has low class and disrespects critics of the topics.  If you are a True FD if you have a profile on the Findoms .com Site I suggest leaving that site.  You are not doing the FD interest any good. 

My personal dislike of Findoms .com is the high amount of Penis Pics.  It seems a high percentage of the Male Profiles involve some kind of a Male Penis in the Profile image.  That is why I call Fin Doms . Com:   The Penis Pic Senders Paradise Website. 

Fin Doms .com = Fake Financial Domination.





#10
I have often wondered about the interest that Financial Dominants and those who claim to be Financial Dominants about their sincerity of wanting and the ability to be a financial dominant. 

Obviously some of the Cam Show Entertainers who role play the act of a financial dominant will freely admit they are simply doing cam shows in the FD Genre because their is a demand for that role play.  So obviously those Cam Show entertainers are not sincere about being a financial dominant.

We who have been in the Financial Domination Art for some time even know that their are a lot of those claiming to be financial dominants who are out to simply make a quick buck and know they are not a a financial dominant and not even possessing a dominant personality.  However,  they think if a guy wants to give them some money to call them a loser they will do it.  That is, for a price.     

But, what about  those who claim to be financial dominants?  Those  who consider themselves to be a financial dominant and will practice the art of financial domination?

I am a big time critic of the fake and pseudo FD's.  And will often claim that almost all of FD is fake.  I would even say greater than 99% of what is said to be FD is in reality not FD. 

Being that I have experience in the FD world of over 45 years  I believe I can correctly state that the best financial dominant barely reaches the standard of being a True FD.

Why do I think that?

The main reasoning is that Women by their very nature in almost all cases cannot be natural in a dominant setting.  Further, they likely are only acting dominant only because some man wants them to take on the role of a dominant Woman.  The point is most women are not capable of being a FD on their own. 

Here is the Truth:  Men are what make the FD interest.  Women in their natural state cannot be financial dominant.  They operate on a very relational aspect of their brain. It is the way they are created.

So can a woman be a True FD?   In almost all cases the answer is:  No.  However, a Woman who may have some dominant characteristics can be a True FD.  I would just say the probable percentage of Woman who claim to be involved in the FD interest who are indeed naturally dominant I think is probably 1 in 5,000.  If even that!

Any thoughts?





#11
Financial Domination Discussion / It's a Man!
January 15, 2016, 07:22:23 PM
One of the oldest fake financial domination tricks in the book are men pretending to be Female Financial Dominants.  It is quite amusing to see them pop up (No pun intended).   

We who have been in the financial domination interest for a number of years have seen a wide multitude of fake financial dominants come and go along with their scams.  But, the idea of a man pretending to be a female financial dominant has got to be the most common and easily recognized fraud within the FD interest.

In reality, probably not all too common.  However, I can remember the days of the old AOL BDSM so called Fin Dom chat rooms were almost a majority of men pretending to be Woman Financial Dominants.   Back in those days the online world of FD was a still relatively new activity.  The internet was still young and internet users were quite inexperienced.  Fake and wannabe money slaves also ventured into the FD scene thinking they could convince a girl to show them some promising to send them a few $.  Since Web Cams were not yet built into Desk Top PC's  and the Web Cams that were out there were at best grainy and expensive.    To make money as a fake woman FD the man impersonating a woman could simply obtain pictures and even sometimes videos from such sites as Russian Mail Order Bride Sites.  The fake FD could then build a profile from that.  Some inventive and imaginative  men could develop a whole personality with the fake profile and make a whole Yahoo Group based on this non existent phantom profile.  If the guy was good he could even splice videos and make it appear in the video the woman would appear and appear to be communicating in a web cam.  You have to give them credit, some of those guys were really good.  And probably made some good money with this fake persona.

Eventually probably by about 2002 people got smarter and could know the fake and started demanding proof pictures and proof videos.  The fake business soon disappeared for the most part .  Only coming back once in a while and soon realizing the clients were a step ahead of them. 

Now they seem to be coming back. And with a vengeance.   The mass influx of fake websites and fake FD's coming from the U.K and new generation of millennial U.S fake doms have lately been feeding a new batch of fakery.  Some of which even would surprise long term FD Veterans. 

It is quite easy to overcome the fakes.

1.  Never send money to a profile no matter how enticing the talk and the pictures are.  Until you have absolute proof of the identity of the FD.

2.  Realize that no True FD if she is a True FD would be bothered by proving herself.  In fact, you would think a True FD wants to prove she is a True FD. 

3.  Be persistent.  We have to fight these fakes whenever they appear.  They are an onslaught to the FD interest.  Insist on proof.  Do not send money to anyone not proven.

#12
Hello.

If you are Financial Dominant I would like to help you with your Introductions.   As a life long money slave I would like to suggest these things for a Financial Dominant who desire to introduce herself in order to attract new prospects.

1.  Get a You Tube Account.  Post a Introduction Video explaining who you are and your interest.  However, be aware that You Tube does not allow adult themed videos.  So keep it PG Rated.  You Tube has been known to delete You Tube Accounts with links to Adult sites.  So do not include any link to a Cam Show site. 

2.  Start a Blog.  Post your Pictures and Videos and a more detailed written description of yourself.  Again,  add your interest and what you are seeking in a money slave.  Be original, be honest and be sincere.   

3.  I would suggest a Twitter Account and/or a Instagram Account .  You can make your Twitter or Instagram Private if you want.  However doing so makes your account accessible only to your selected money slaves and fans to have access to you.   Always remember to keep your account active.  I recommend to Post something at least once a week. 

4.  Be willing to answer prospect questions. 

5.  In your Introductions post how a prospect can contact you and learn more about you. 

6.  You do not necessarily need your own web site.   But, if you do get a web site make sure you update it on a regular basis.  Always be aware that for some money slaves may not prefer FD's with a web site as they may think you are enslaving a lot of money slaves.  Some money slaves prefer FD's with only a small number of slaves.  So unless you intend to own a lot of slaves a web site probably is not a good idea.  A Blog, Twitter, Instagram and You Tube can work just as well.    Also be aware that most FD Web Sites are maintained on Adult Web Site Servers.  Which for some money slaves may also be a distraction.   

7.  Always be mindful that how you write and express yourself to a target audience.  Meaning if you write and post sexual explicit material you may very well attract the more sexual themed responses.  Which also may distract the more subdued real money slaves. 

Trust me.  As a money slave very few prospects will send you any money without some kind of verification of who you are   If a prospect ask you for nude pictures you are probably not communicating with a real money slave.   A real money slave who you do not yet own will not send you penis pics or ask you to send nude images of yourself.

You should write some kind of your Philosophy of Financial Domination.  Meaning what you think FD is. 

If you make it difficult for a slave to contact you most slaves will just say you are too difficult and will just contact some other FD who will.

Do not always think a prospect who does not send you money right away is a Time Waster.  Most real money slaves need to know who you are and can establish some sort of communication with you.  It may take days, a week or even months.   If you are a True FD you will know fairly quick just how the prospect writes to you if he is seriously interested. 

Realize:  If you own a Money Slave you will have to trust your Money Slave.  That means you will have to allow him to send your money to your Bank via Online Transfer.  Very few real money slaves can tolerate sending your money via a third party.  Forget the Gift Rocket Crap.  No real money slave will want to send you money that way. 

If you cannot trust a money slave the FD interest may not be for you. 


#13
According to almost all accounts the vast majority of Sex Workers have reported that they were abused sexually.  A good number of that % have claimed that they were abused sexually as minors.

Most studies have also concluded that Women who enter the Adult/Sex Industry do so as a result of that sexual abuse and relive the experience within the acts of the Adult and Sex Industry. 

Some Financial Dominants especially those FD's who have connections to fetish web sites and produced sexual based cam shows for example will often freely admit they are sex workers.

So that begs the question:  Are Financial Dominants victims of sexual abuse?  Further are financial dominants being sexually exploited by their money slaves?

This question made me think.  Obviously as a money slave I would prefer to be in service to a financial dominant who can meet my personal preferences and practice them.  So am I as a Money Slave in reality exploiting my financial dominant who would know I likely would not want to be in her service if she did not meet my own personal preferences?  Such as in how she looks, acts, her personality etc. 

Being that almost all of what is claimed to be financial domination is in reality not financial domination I would tend to believe that most of the claimed financial dominants are indeed victims of sexual abuse and thus would probably not want to be financial dominants if not for the reliving of their past sexual abuse. 

Any thoughts on this topic?    Please share your comments. 
#14
Other Fetishes / Fetish Interest
January 02, 2016, 12:19:00 AM
I often incorporate my other interest into my primary interest of Financial Domination:

1.  Pregnancy Fetish:  I have a big and growing (No pun intended) interest in Pregnant in particular, Pregnant FD's.  I have only been able to experience it a very few times in my life but, one of the most pleasant and relaxing as well as probably the most arousing thing to do is to rub a pregnant Woman tummy.  More so, if she is a Pregnant FD that I am in service to.  Personally,  I would like to see a lot more FD's become pregnant and reproducing. 

2.  Legs:  I consider myself a Legs Freak.  I refer to nice legs as:  Money Maker Legs.  For me, being able to rub them is easily worth some big money.  If I am in service to a FD and she allows me to rub her legs telling me that as soon as I rub her legs I would acquire a $50,000.00 Debt to her and be bound to her for life I would think that as a bargain deal.   I would just hope the relationship would last for life so I can work on that debt and be happy about it.   FD's should emphasize more on their legs. 

3.  Cheerleader Fetish:  I think every FD should have at least one real Cheerleader Uniform.  FD's should be the Cheerleader of their money slaves using that natural god given nurturing characteristic to cheer on  their slaves.  Combined with that legs and pregnancy fetish that to me is a binding forever action.

#15
To be a money slave or a financial dominant in the true sense of the term requires a unique personality.  Both Financial Dominants and Money Slaves can suffer from bouts of anxiety and even depression and even maybe a feeling of low self worth within the FD interest about issues within and involving the FD Interest.

A Financial Dominant may have an overwhelming concern that her money slave is not disclosing income or assets.  Maybe the FD may think her Slave is secretly sending money to another FD.  Maybe the FD may think her slave is secretly communicating with another FD.  That anxiety may get even worse if the money slave is communicating with another FD and that other FD is targeting the Money Slave seeking that money Slave to be a slave to her.  Encouraging the Money Slave that his present FD does not meet his expectations or pointing out flaws with that FD.  These efforts can be subliminal or even very direct.  For some FD's the need to control a number of Money Slaves may be overwhelming her sense of ethics that she would not take a Slave of another FD.  Lets face it.  For some FD's they have that massive need of control and that need can be overwhelming for some. 

Financial Dominants may also have anxiety over the Money Slave cannot seem to find a better job or income.  Granted, to be a True FD a True FD is more interested in the control and obedience and the service, loyalty and dedication her slave gives her.  However, the FD may believe her slave is underpaid and wants him to be more assertive to receive promotion or she may believe her slave should be higher paid.  Or maybe even the Slave cannot find a job.  Those issues can also cause anxiety for a FD.

Another anxiety is that FD's may not be able to relax due to transfer methods.  For example did the Slave transfer her money to the correct account?  Why is it taking so long to get her money?  Very real anxiety for a FD.

For Money Slaves.  At least for me, one of my biggest anxieties is a lack of communication.  Other reasons for anxiety may be:    Why does not my FD respond to me?  Is my FD being honest?  Is my FD misleading me?  Is my FD in reality just another fake FD? 

Another anxiety a money slave may face is:  Does my FD appreciate my efforts to serve her? 

What about the feeling: 

1.   I do not feel as though my FD knows how to be a FD.

2.  I feel as though my FD lacks the ability to fully grasp what it means to be a FD.

3.  She is disengaged, indifferent, out of touch and/or she does not understand me. 

I know those feelings all too well.  I have been involved and in contact with probably at least 60 FD's in my lifetime  (Granted, maybe many were not True FD's).  I know what it is like to be in service to a FD and to have a nagging feeling the FD does not know what she is doing.  She cannot even manage her own affairs.  How can I expect her to be able to own me and make those necessary ordering of my own life so I can feel like a Real Money Slave?   

I have seen very indifferent FD's.  Who are reality Lazy.  Some may even have a sense of control  but, thy may be so lazy they have no interest to do anything.  Except maybe stay home and play video Games all day long.

Maybe the FD only interest is in her own personal visual surroundings.   

I for one as a White Slave with a high preference for Black and Non White FD's have found that seems to be a big problem among many Black FD's.  I am only referring to my own personal experience with the Black FD's that I have encountered.  So do not take my description as a stereotype.  Just in my own personal observations almost without exception of the FD's I have come in contact with who are Black always seem to be very indifferent.  They have little interest for anything outside of their own personal sphere of influence.  They hate travelling or visiting anything such as natural forms.  Have a a very low appreciation of art and have almost no or very little interest t in adventures and viewing new things.  I of course am only referring to those Black FD's I have associated with.   However,  I seen some of the writings of other Black FD's and I have seen those indicators as well.   To me, being a White Slave with a high preference for Black FD's and being that I have a very active imagination and a high sense of adventure and a need for viewing the "Good" cause me some level of high anxiety.  Especially seeing that I see a high degree of indifference and unenthusiastic, and disengaged Black FD's. 

Another anxiety is communication.  I have been labeled by some FD's as being "Needy"  Even a past FD of mine accused me of being "needy" on at least a couple occasions.  That is another issue that causes me anxiety.  When a FD uses the term; Needy as labeled to a Money Slave to me means the relationship is going to end very soon.  Communication in a FD relationship just like any other non FD relationship to be secure and successful must involve open and accessible communication.  Granted some Money Slaves might be overwhelming for a FD .  Even still as soon as the FD considers her Slave to be "Needy"  the relationship will soon die or should just end then and there.    I personally do not think I am "needy"  I just need a FD who can be receptive to my reports to her, be accessible, answer and reply to communication.  As well the FD should have genuine interest in the well being of her slave.  If the FD does not enjoy communicating with her slave she might as well just end the relationship then and there. 

Those are some things I think can cause anxiety within the FD Interest.

But how do you fix it?  How can someone involved in the FD interest find relief from anxiety?

If  the first issue is that if your Slave or FD causes you anxiety probably best to let the FD or Money Slave know it.  If the FD or Money Slave is not willing to relieve the anxiety maybe a change of relationship may be the best option.  Maybe the two of you are not compatible?  Maybe you as a Money Slave overwhelm the FD and the FD feels you are burden?  So maybe best to end the relationship. 

Granted,  for us Money Slaves we have an advantage in the FD interest.  Hundreds of claimed FD's are out there.  Granted almost all are fake FD, Scammers and Frauds.  However, with a little bit of research and maybe some effort we generally can easily find a available FD.  Or at least a FD that might attract our interest. It may take a transfer just so the FD may think you are serious.  But generally we as money slaves have that little bit of advantage.

For FD's Maybe try to get to know your Slave.  Know his interest.  Know what makes your sick tick.  If it is reasonable and something you can also enjoy maybe your relationship can be successful. 

I as a money slave enjoy the appreciation of my FD and when I know my FD is sincerely happy with my efforts then it motivates me to be even more willing to go all out for my FD.

If your slave overwhelms you or you feel your slave is too much work maybe you should end the relationship.  The money no matter how much it is if the relationship is too difficult for you the best option may be to tell your Slave or prospect that you are not interested in their service.  In reality, most Slaves are at least average in intelligence.  If they know or even sense you are not serious about being a FD and are principally only concerned about the $ do you really think your Slave would stick around after a new, prettier FD shows up?  No need to subject to a future hardship.  Just end it.  Tell the Slave you are not interested is the best option. 

#16
If  you are a financial dominant or even a money slave or someone who is involved in FD before you jump on my case for writing something against FD's make sure you read the article.  Do not presume I am writing something that I am not.  O.K? 

I have been thinking about FD and how it relates to financial ethics.  Lets face it.  FD is about money.  and what does money bring out in people?  Greed,  Lust for money, self interest and a wide variety of vices.  In the corporate world  we often hear about Corporate CEO's accused of Fraud,  I.E  Enron.  for example.  As well as that Wolf of Wall Street guy.  What did they do that brought about investigations of their finances?  Misrepresenting their intent and defrauding their clients. 

I am not saying that all FD's are guilty of fraud.  However, if they misrepresent themselves.  Pretend to be someone that they are not.  Make false claims to a money slave, Mislead a Money Slave to expect something that they will never fulfill.  etc.  In those case the FD could be held criminally and civil liable. 

If a FD makes a money slave think that the money slave will actually meet the FD in person for example and the FD knows that will never happen would that be fraud?  Clearly the answer has to be Yes. 

Does the FD convince a money slave that if he gives her more access and control that the FD will be in love with the money slave.  i.e reproduce, marriage or be in a long term commitment with the slave is that fraud? Well if the FD led the money slave to think doing those things would produce a reasonable expectation of those returns then the FD could be criminally and civil liable as well. 

However the reality is would any of these cases ever make it to court?  Most likely not.

1.  In the Non FD world almost every non FD involved person would think the money slave is a fool for being a money slave in the first place.

2.  Likely most money slaves are already married to non dominant  and non FD women.  So they probably would not want to pursue legal action anyway. 

So what should be done?  Probably their is no recourse for a wronged money slave.  Even if his case did make it to court he would likely be laughed at. 

FD's should know that they are the one who receive direct financial benefit from the FD activities.  Money Slaves obviously do not gain any financial benefit since they are the income producers for the FD.  That being the case it is the burden of the FD to make she sure she honestly and truthfully represents herself of who she really is.  If the slave begins to get more seriously bound to the FD the FD either has to set a more clear limit or accept the further binding to herself and accommodate the expectations of the money slave.    it is that simple.

FD's should not be like the Snake Oil salespeople of the 19th century.  Be honest who you are,  Make sure your Slave/clients know what you will deliver in exchange for your slave service to you. Avoid being misunderstood.  Be clear, be honest,  do not commit fraud.   Don't let yourself be another of the majority of fake FD practitioners:  The scams, the cheats and the con artist. 

Personally, I would like to see fake FD's in jail and in court answering and receiving justice for their fraudulent FD activities.

#17
I have met in person with several of the financial dominants that I have served to some degree who I have initially met online. 

However,  I do not refer to them as "Sessions".   I call them just meeting a FD in person.  "Sessions" to me to me is too much like paying to meet someone.  Which to me,  I have never paid a FD for anything.

Anyhow,

The experiences have been mixed. 

Being a Money Slave to some degree for over 45 years I obviously would have been involved with FD's well before the so called "Online Financial Domination Interest".  Going well back into the 1980's and even 1970's. 

First episodes were being forced to hand over some lunch money, paper route money and into my early work history leading into adulthood.  I personally do not recall any time in my life where I was not involved with a FD in some sort of capacity or degree.  However, the term "Financial Domination",  "Money Slavery" did not even exist.  It was just called being used for the benefit of someone else.  You could call it Bullying.  However, in my case,  I do not ever think I was ever bullied or forced to give or transfer money to anyone against my will.  In fact, most of the time after handing over my measly pay checks I was very happy afterwards and looked forward to the next time.   Later when I was making my military pay I know for me I felt a need to transfer my pay check to a pretty Philippine Woman in exchange for her willingness to enjoy my presence and be with me.    To me that was all I sought in life and very contented in serving. 

I can also remember about 1997/1998 first discovering the Online world of Financial Domination.  The Preverted AOL Chat-rooms on the topic were some of the sickest form of preversions I have seen.  However, once in a while a True FD would pop up that might attract my interest. 

My first successful online contact with a FD occurred about 1998 and was with a Atlanta based FD named Goddess Mistress Octavia.  I sent her $60.00 and her response was "Why so little?"  Never contacted her again after as she definitely was not my type.  However, I soon learned about the Online World of Financial Domination was almost always the same as it is today.  Preverts, Frauds, Psychos, Knuckleheads, Instas and the like.  Nothing has changed!

I often laugh at some people involved in the interest claiming to remember a so called "Golden Era of Online FD".  Sorry to tell you this. Their has never been a Golden Era of Online FD.  Their have always, fakes, Instas, Frauds, Scammers, Rip-Offs, Preverts, Penis Pic Senders, Morons,Psychos  and Knuckleheads within FD and always will be.   FD is a magnet for freaks, fakes, preverts, frauds and the like. 
 
My first online FD relationship whom I later met in person was with a FD from New Bedford, Massachusetts named Kristina.  Visited her twice and found her to be a cold, distant personality and on the detached side of life too.  I have no idea why I continued as her slave as long as I did.  She was a real piece of work!   

The second FD I met in person occurred about 2005 with a FD from Orcas Island, Washington State.  She was married to a Mormon Bigamist.  However, she was actually a fairly good FD.  Even though she probably did not want to be a FD.  She probably more was interested in selling cam shows.  I ended that relationship after about two years due to the distance was just too great to maintain the relationship that I thought could work.  One of the highlights of that meeting was that she actually did a in person ATM Cash Withdraw of $400.00 and she was quite receptive of my presence.  However, as I said the distance was just too great and I could never get the feeling she really wanted to be a FD. 

I also met a Former online active FD named Andrea who lived in Lansing, Michigan at the time.  She was extremely pretty.  However,  I thought she was afraid of me even though she practiced FD online fairly well.  That relationship ended after I felt she could not trust me and often mismanaged her money.  She also bothered me that she neglected her offspring.  One of the big things that bothered me was that she convinced me to buy her a $740.00 set of Earrings.  A few months later she pawned the earrings for $50.00 to get a Carton of Cigarettes,  Then lied to me about it.  Claiming the earrings were lost at a gym. 

Her tobacco addiction really bothered me as I thought she wasted money and neglected things she should not neglect.  As well as she would make very illogical decisions.  I also questioned her ability to be a dominant after I learned her former husband would often assault her and then get back with him.  Andrea could be a excellent FD at one moment and the next moment be very neglectful.  However, I enjoyed her in person ATM Withdraws and her very attractive looks.    I served her off and on for about 5 years.  And in fact, at one time we are engaged. 

My most recent former  FD I have visited her twice.  That relationship just ended less than a week ago.   I could never get over the feeling that she was unenthusiastic about the relationship and that she was not very communicative at all.  I believe in a True FD Relationship just as any relationship requires a consistent and constant open access communication.  Granted, she was ill for a long time which I often excused.  However, still could not overcome the feeling of her being distant and unenthusiastic about me or the relationship  Even though knowing of her over 6 years and serving her 5 years.  We were even engaged and still she seemed unenthusiastic. I also felt she refused to take the engagement seriously.  Which annoyed me to no end.  Which I explained to her quite often.   Her responses seemed to have very unenthusiastic, Cold, short and Terse.  And when she did respond it seemed as though the communication would end abruptly. 

Granted,  I was aware she was ill and under medications.  But, still felt she could better communicate and honestly update me clearly which she could not or would not do.

I am now looking forward to a new FD relationship that will be True and life long,  Something that has painfully eluded me for the past 45 years as a money slave. 

I also served a FD about 2004 named Megan who was a Nurse from Bloomington,  Illinois.  I was going to visit her.  Was on the Plane and then received a Text Message from her while on the Plane Boarding Gate that she could not meet with me. 
#18
Merry Christmas!

Especially Merry Christmas to those involved in the FD Interest!

If you live in the Eastern Part of the United States it being so warm and humid today you probably think it sure does not feel like Christmas. 

The way I look at this weather is this:

This is perfect weather for a Male Money Slave to meet up with a Pretty Central American Undocumented Immigrant in a effort to reproduce with her.   That way she can enslave you for at least the next 18 years and you become a real, literal path for her and your offspring to obtain U.S Citizenship.  Definitely would benefit all involved. 

If you are a Female FD maybe you can support that effort or even reproduce yourself and make your money slave responsible for your offspring?  Just my suggestion.

#19
The question of which Year 2016 U.S.A Presidential Candidate would have the best interest of the practice of financial domination is a difficult question to answer.  The main problem involved with the question is that as far as we know none of the Presidential Candidates have any idea, opinion or practice or experience in the practice of FD.  In fact, most likely all of them would probably rather avoid the topic or feel very uncomfortable making any statement about the practice of FD. 

So who among the year 2016 U.S.A Presidential Candidates should those of us involved in the FD Interest support? 

Being, that Libertarian political thought is a political philosophy based on individual freedoms and a un obtrusive government in the personal lives of people I would think those of us involved with FD should support the most Libertarian Candidate.  In my opinion that would at this present time among the Republican Party Candidates would be Rand Paul.  Republican Senator from Kentucky.  Some may say why not Donald Trump?  Or even why not Ted Cruz? 

In the case of Donald Trump.  I consider him more authoritarian then Libertarian.  Not to mention the personality of Donald Trump would go against the idea of a submissive male money slave.  Granted,  their ares ome Male FD's.  However, they are not considered for this topic.  (Maybe some other time).  The idea of Donald Trump coming in favor of the FD art seems an unlikely event.  He is a Businessman and I do not see him personally submissive to his Wife.  Granted  who knows? 

Ted Cruz:  He is a very strong Conservative.  However, also an authoritarian.  Ted Cruz if given the opportunity to speak about FD I would expect him to be quite negative in his ideas. 

Rand Paul:  A consistently Libertarian with Conservative leanings.  However, Rand Paul does make it clear that he supports individual freedom including freedom of association  Which is an absolute necessity within the FD interest. 

So what about the Libertarian Party?  Voting Libertarian would be the best option I think.  Mark Feldman is probably the most favorable of any Presidential Candidate to the FD Interest. 

I think we in the FD Interest should support Open and free Immigration.  Especially among Central Americans, Caribbean and Sub Sahara Africans.  The reason is that those of us within the FD Interest should promote the idea of the practice of FD.  Those of us withing the FD interest who also have an interest in Racial Domination.  Especially those of us Whites who believe that Non Whites should be able to own White Slaves should encourage Immigration into the U.S.  The reason is that may make it easier for even just one of those Immigrants may want to enter the U.S.A in order to own White Slaves.    That being the case, we in the FD Interest can determine which Presidential Candidate would be most favorable to the practice of FD? 

Among the Democrats of Hillary Clinton and Bernie Sanders:   The problem with these two is the Socialist and Big Government Welfare State Supporting politics of these two.  The problem here is that FD is based and worked best in a Free Market Capitalism system.  The basic ideas of Socialism and Liberal Political ideas and economics are diametrically opposed to the practice of FD. 

Personally,  I recommend Rand Paul.  He may not even come close.  However, his ideas are most in line with the art of FD.  Secondly, Register to vote as a Libertarian and then vote in November 2016 for Mark Feldman. 









 
#20
"I hold it true, whate'er befall; I feel it, when I sorrow most; 'Tis better to have loved and lost Than never to have loved at all."
-Alfred Lord Tennyson.

Within Financial Domination Relationships Unrequited Love can be a major problem.  It is most likely a problem especially for the usually submissive Money Slave.   Financial Dominants can experience  unrequited love as well.  However, maybe not to such a degree as the usually more submissive money slave.

Reality within FD is that most FD's tend to be naturally dominant (True FD's). So they will tend to most often view submissive personalities as those that they have a need to control.  Or at the minimum to exercise a degree of influence over a money slave.   So most likely a FD who finds her money slave not attending to her needs would most likely lose interest in her submissive very quickly and view the submissive more in terms of disobedient or even disrespectful.  So the sense of love a FD would feel toward a submissive is probably much different than the love a money slave may feel towards a FD.  Now granted, in a long term FD relationship that the FD finds her money slave wandering towards other FD's may feel hurt and pain and even feel a sense of disillusionment.  Maybe even wanting to give up practicing FD.  In that case as well may be an exception.  However, still a FD generally has a higher sense of natural dominant personality and probably could recover from that relationship quicker than a submissive money slave.

In the case of a submissive Money Slave when a money Slave falls in love with an FD who does not feel the same sense of love in the relationship the pain can be very real.  Especially if the money slave is of a sensitive personality.  Granted,  a money slave who does not get reciprocated can likely just find another FD.  However, just as in all relationships after time and energy and emotions are invested in the relationship when the FD does not feel love for her money slave the money slave will find a deep sense of rejection. 

Starting with denial the submissive may think:  Maybe she is just a hard personality.  Or maybe I should try harder.  Maybe she needs more time to get to know me.  etc. 

What should a money slave do who has a FD who does not feel the same way he feels for her?

1.  Try to be clear with your intentions from the start.  This may be hard as most FD's may not trust a money slave.  FD's are often lied to a lot in the start of relationships and so they may tend to be hard shells.  But, if you are consistent over time and she remains cold or closed to you.  You may have to face reality that the relationship is not proceeding the way you hope.   Problem may get worse if you cannot accept it. 

2.  If you have a close friend who knows you are a Money Slave try to accept your friend counsel.  And outside observer may be your best option to give you truth.

3. If all else fails you may want to try searching for a more compatible FD.  The fortunate thing about being a money slave is that their is never a shortage of claimed FD's.  However, granted almost all the claimed FD's are fake,  But try and try again.  I know I have. 


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