I found my first pay pig in my neighborhood. Little piggy would bring me gifts, do errands, anything I wanted. He enjoyed any attention I gave him. He loved seeing me happy and knew he was nothing more than a wallet to me.

My first online pig was on Facebook.  Piggy saw a post I made, found my wish list, and purchased an item.  He chose silver-plated make-up brushes and in the note said, "I envy these brushes".  That was in 2013, he is still with me.

Having anxieties about those special gifts to get your Domme/s for the holidays? Here is a list of ideas. You can pick out some or all. Ask your Domme what she likes, get to know her tastes.


1. Wish List Items- you know she is going to like something she already picked out for herself.


2. Gift Cards- these can be from her favorite store/s or a restaurant. Better yet, buy an assortment instead of just one.


3. Gift of the Month Clubs- there so many types of these. Clothing, jewelry, makeup, specialty foods, just about any kind are sold this way. She gets something monthly.



4. An Advent Calendars- 25 gifts to open.



5. Her signature scent- most scents come in a variety of items, not just perfume. Many scents are made into soaps, lotion, powder, and deodorant. Make a gift basket of these items. Many companies make premade sets.


6. Gift Basket- make one yourself of her favorite things. You can get very creative.


7. Make a donation in her name to her favorite charity.


8. Clothes, shoes, or a handbag from her favorite fashion house. Buy an entire outfit.


9. Pay for a vacation.


10. Cash, Stocks, and Bonds


Make sure to show your appreciation. Make it special for her.

Good Luck.

DomCon in LA was wonderful. The entire week was funded by my sub. Sub saw to all of my needs and wants. We drove from North Florida to Los Angeles, he chauffered me up.  Sub saw to all of my comforts. He surprised me with interesting excursions along the way there and back.


On the way to LA, the sub made sure I had comfortable hotel rooms. We visited a museum in Texas with an area devoted to one of my favorite performers, Janis Joplin.  We stopped in El Paso. Sub and I explored the town. Beautiful mountains.  I spent time with my romantic interest, he lives in El Paso.  This gave the sub some time on his own. The outfit and hotel room all paid for by the sub.



We made it to LA, twenty minutes before first day classes. While I went to the industry only classes, the sub got the keys for the B&B we stayed at. This place was really nice, extremely comfortable. Every morning we were in LA, was spent touring. Sub made all the plans. He did well picking out activities that I enjoyed. La Brea Tar Pits, Hollywood sign, Beverly Hills, and the Getty Museum to name a few. Afternoons spent at the conference with classes and shopping. Sub paid for all, new items for my dungeon bag and a gorgeous corset. Evenings spent playing in the dungeon.



On the way home, the sub had more surprise trips. One checked an item off my bucket list, the Grand Canyon.  The entire trip, I only took my wallet out a few times. Twice, to buy treats for my sub, he has a sweet tooth. Sub did a wonderful job. I am very pleased with him. Other subs could learn from him.

A certain retail giant has put a damper on our holiday plans. Amazon is deleting sex worker accounts. This is unacceptable. We are smarter than they are. There are a few things that we can do.


Time to make a burner email address. Use older emails like Hotmail and Yahoo. Instead of being MistressXYZ, try being MrsXYZ. Just use a plain name like Jane Smith, it works. You could make a new Amazon account with purchases going to a P.O. Box. Why give them any more money? There are other retailers with wish lists and gift cards. I am sure they will enjoy the boost in holiday sales.


As for subs, no more using names like your ATMpigboy on gift cards or purchases. You can opt for John Smith. No more messages as "I worship you", try putting "thank you for the kindness". The more innocuous we make them sound the less likely it will be flagged.


These businesses forget we have imagination, we are highly intelligent, we can adapt, and conquer. They did put a damper on our holiday plans, but ultimately, we will get our way.

Like the other ladies have said, it takes patience and having a presence. Men are hunters by nature. Allow the quarry to come to you. Have content they can stalk. Lead them down the trail with blogs. Lure them in with pictures. Subs will wish to trap your attention. They attempt to set bait with tributes and gifts. The chase is on. They will be on the quest in pursuit of your attention. Time to set your traps. Reel your game in. Ultimately, the submissive is the prey for the Domme to capture. Happy Hunting!

I am a Domme.