I have been a Domme since I stumbled upon my first sub years ago. The feeling of power and control turned me on in a way I didn't understand at the time. A real domme is natural dominate and her power is not only felt by her subs or slave, but everyone around her can feel it. Being a domme is an art. I looked through the introductory section on this forum and I am seeing so called "findoms" giving instructions with options. I can read your hesitation. So a man would has done well professional can too. Then there are these mouthy untrained disrespectful subs calling themselves "payslaves". Don't make me laugh. What you need is a true domme to deflate that puffed up chest of yours and break your sorry ass in. The girls that are cluelessly ask for things instead of requiring things are making these weak pencil dick servants feel like they are moving up in the world. Seriously if being dominate is not who you are that's fine. There are plenty of sugar daddy's out there that are seeking a pretty princess to take care of.