This was good for a chuckle...

I got an application from "Richard" who wanted to know how he could serve me and I replied, but then he replied back saying that I was taking advantage of "mentally ill men" and how no man in his right mind would want this and I should get help to release the good girl inside me.

Awwwwww....Richard wants to SAVE us poor souls from the wicked life we lead! He doesn't seem to understand the concept of consent & fetishes and how a great match can work out for everyone. His world is only black & white. Maybe we can save HIM??

Feel free to suggest help for him at richardx007@hotmail.co.uk

I think he's secretly hiding a sad little boy inside who just wanted my Domme girl to come out and play with him....maybe??

I'll let you all know if I find out....

LMAO!!!

I find there are so many different FinDoms with various quirks, and this is one aspect I don't particularly care for... Desperation is not the way to go...

Interesting...
Why are you taking a poll?

I was Baptized as a child, however as an adult, I do not hold any religious preference.

I find this to be a very interesting question, which I cannot seem to come to a fair conclusion.
This fetish, or should I say most types of fetishes outside the sexual world, aren't well recepted, understood, etc.

In my experience, the power hungry mongrels are the weakest and most submissive, however could actually lose their "Power" if it were to be found out they were seeking domination online or real-time.

I am Canadian, and though we have some fet events we're "open", there isn't enough understanding around us, for me to say any political party would be best suited for FinDom or anything of the like would be an outright lie.

In the cities, it would be different, HOWEVER, even in those instances, most people don't truly understand the differences, as they would see FinDom, Domming, etc, etc as being a prostitute or something similiar without REALLY thinking about the power and control aspect.

Where I'm from (my specific community), it's definitely not accepted nor understood, so to really explain this with my local MLA would be nearly impossible for a couple of reasons...

-LOCAL meaning, you would have to worry about confidentiality between you and your MLA Representative (no matter what party comes to your door or calls).  There are Dommes who could lose their jobs if what they were doing partime was to come out.

-Since most people lack in the ability to truly think and empathize with others differences (fetishes), I'd be afraid  the representative would just sweep it under the carpet and not say anything, hence releasing any embarassment to him/herself in front of the party members, or just thinking there are more important things to discuss than sexual desires or lifestyles.

We would need someone who is familiar with the fetish world and open to discuss matters in a public forum in person nationwide.

The world we live in, isn't ready... My opinion.

Quote from: yourmoneyslave on December 07, 2015, 03:27:26 PM
Jeez... this forum is SO full of illuminated minds..... amazing. Simply amazing.

Hmmm...
I'm a bit intrigued here...
Indulge me with explaining the iluminated thought process here in the forum.

I've been in this business for quite a while, and I enjoy conversing with submissives to get to know them as people, because at the end of the day we are all persons. However, I do firmly believe we all have our different roles to play in various parts of life, this includes fetishes and sexual roles.

Explain...

Fucking pathetic, indeed! Absolutely hilarious! The slaves both love it and hate it when I laugh at their misery, as they're groveling. Quite entertaining...lol And yes, the "My friends" aspect is pretty funny, especially as one is laughing (quite hard actually) and the other is commenting on how disgusting or weird they are...lol They aren't always girls, as I have guy friends as well....lolol Pretty humiliating at times.

We've bantered back and forth about granting permission, but usually what happens is making them do a unforeseen task first before granting it... The "Friend" aspect doesn't happen that often, but it does happen, nonetheless. However in saying that, there are times when my partner in crime (boyfriend) is definitely around and he hears all and sees most...lol

I was doing a Skype session one time with a slave that was into Scat, ABDL, Consenusal Blackmail ~Hardcore I might add~ along with many other different things, and Nigel (the slave) could hear my boyfriend. He was feeling so humiliated because there he was naked, with his fully soiled diaper on (or nappy as he called it), had his gross pacifier in his mouth (that he just had in his dirty ass), crying his bloody head off because I was making him do things that he wanted forced.... it wasn't pretty so don't ask unless you REALLY want the answers...lol 

My boyfriend was watching. Nigel knew it. He could hear him almost gagging, while hearing me laughing my bloody head off. The more he begged, the harder I laughed. The harder I laughed, the harder he cried and begged, but yet, Nigel LOVED it.

Nigel loved the bathroom control. That was set for once a week. I called it "Weeing Wednesdays". He was always up for a challenge, and he would get them He'd text me, call me and Skype me, as well as emailing me, etc. We'd even send things through the mail to each other. I must say, as gross and disgusting as he was, he was A LOT of fun. LOVED it, but had nightmares at the same time...LOL

Every slave/client I have or had is different. Not ONE is the same, and therefore, I set it as such. I have the same personality, however the description of what I get them to do is different. There are some similarities with SOME things, but not all. The harder stuff is different for each one.

I like both long term and temporary, as variety is great. Getting to know each and every person who comes and goes is a privilege and allows me the opportunity to become more knowledgeable about what I can do for people, despite how strange it is. I thoroughly enjoy it.

Only four days? lol That's nothing! lmao
Perhaps you need to watch some lesbian domination porn or something to spice things up a bit. It's always a lot more fun when you're on edge...lolol

It doesn't matter how much time elapses. The only way permission MIGHT get granted is if a "cum tax"  of my choosing is paid. Sometimes I make them call my phone and grovel. This part is hilarious when I visit friends houses, because I put it on speaker phone. This often happens with bathroom control. I make them hold it until they are about to burst or other things (keep in mind I make them drink lots of water every 2 hours through out the FULL day.) For bathroom control, they pay a set amount for number one, but then it's more for a number two...LOL

Enjoy stories, particularly ones that I feel I could utilize. I like the idea of having a little diary section (on top of what's expected) for those who wish to do so. A lot of the time though, they view it as "work" or they just can't because of a language barrier or them just having trouble with writing.

What types of experiences have you had in FinDom? You said she made you wait 10 days, so you obviously have a few experiences...

Though it is late, welcome!

How are things going now? Do you have any interesting stories to share?

Welcome to the forum!

I haven't been on here in a bit, so excuse the lateness of my reply.
Please tell us more about yourself, as I feel it's important in making people more comfortable with your proposition. A lot of individuals in the fetish world or kink community, aren't exactly "Open" about the lifestyle, and once they get to know you over time, it becomes easier to help others understand their needs and desires. Trust, honesty and patience is something you have to acquire in this position.

Tell us about some of your experiences, and how you have come to be who you are now.


Bella~

Thank you for sharing her links!

I'm more interested in reading actual stories about what you have done for her, and vice versa. It's nice for both Mistresses and slaves to know of other experiences, as it is an important part to grow and learn.

Please share.


Unpleasantly,
MistressBella

Quote from: princesselise on April 23, 2015, 05:20:38 PM
I hope this is allowed, I mean no disrepect to the site owner.

worldoffindom.socialgo.com

Sharing links is mostly allowed, and by no means are you disrespecting us at all; however, the site is "Down For Maintenance".

If you would be so kind to try to rectify it, or let us know if it's no longer, it would be appreciated. We will remove the link if this isn't clarified.


Thank you for attempting to share.

Good for you! Admitting the obvious isn't always easy.
Jerking off is a privilege, as I said... Kind of like driving. Many people feel as though it is a right... But on the contrary, it's a privilege.

For me, I like to masturbate while driving sometimes...lol
Two privileges. For a Mistress, such as myself and many others, it becomes a right to not only please herself, but to make her slave's condition worsen. Weaken. Wilter.

I find the psychology interesting, between slave and Mistress. Even just the aspect of the slave. It's intriguing, which is why I take the time to get to know them. Most "Slaves" who knock on my door have different expectations than I. You see... I prefer to build a relationship. Make the bond. It's important to have that connection, because without connection, where do you think the relationship is going to go?

These said "Slaves" often have misconceptions regarding what this realm is about. They just see it as a peep show or a session with a cam girl taking her clothes off. There is where I have an issue.

I, for one, do NOT provide any teaser or nude cam shows. I am not a Cam Girl working it for the camera hoping that I can drain their pockets because if the size of my tits, or the tightness of my rear-end. I am not a slave to the "Slaves".

The slave that I choose are ones who fully understand my way. They are strictly my entertainment. No more. No less.

What expectations would you have for your Mistress?
When did you realize you were a submissive, and what was the first thing you did to try to ease the curiosity?

Kind of fantasized? LOL

Sounds to me like you HAVE fantasized.
You think paying for the PRIVILEGE to wack off is humiliating and demoralizing? Just to be abundantly clear, playing with yourself isn't a right, it's a PRIVILEGE, as it's pleasure. Pleasure is one of the privileges of life that your Domme will clearly take away. Over a period of time with some of my slaves, I also make them pay for the RIGHT to have bathroom privileges. This usually occurs once a week.

Helplessness turns you on because you're weak. May not on the outside, to your friends, family, co-workers and peers... but... On the inside it kills you, you're melting inside.

Welcome to the forum!

What would be 3 of your favourites of everything you have tried thus far? Have you had much experience in the FinDom world? Share some stories with us so we can get a good feel for you


Ungratefully yours,
MistressBellaFinDom

The mind games are euphoric in so many ways. To have that control and knowing how you're going to punish them is a completely and utterly powerful feeling.

I tend to be very moody and have mood swings, and as I text them being nice, then to suddenly turn mad on them, it gives them the motivation to stay on their toes. I love it!