As a fellow Twitter Domme, I get just as upset as you do. I have a small account on Twitter because I keep blocking or deleting the followers who like to cause drama or just enjoy the damage they cause as if it is a game to them.
I started out at the age of 18 as a sub and a year later after a bad experience (a story for another day) I started training as a Domme. I was taught manners, kindness, and trust above all else is the only way to become a respected Dominant (male or female).
It really gets under my skin when people jump into this without one shred of knowledge, laugh at hurting a family (innocent people) because "it is fun".

It sounds like you have gone over the deep in and are going to have a serious issue kicking it. There are some Dommes that will help you scratch that itch without bankrupting you. While others will gladly stand by and laugh as your life goes up in flames.
All I can say is find someone who will support you. Like a mentor.

My BDSM background
I am a world traveling lifestyle Dominatrix with a passion for Financial Domination. I have been dominating men since 2001. For a year before that, I earned my stripes as a submissive. I was taught from the start that aftercare is a big part of the BDSM scene.
I am interested in male and female submissive who want to build an online D/s dynamic that includes Financial Domination. I take this just as seriously as if you were kneeling in front of me and I won't tolerate anything different. It is the dynamic of mutual interest that I am intrigued by. If we don't share fetishes it won't work. So take the time to look through my list of fetishes before messaging me.
If you are local and I find you intriguing enough then a shopping spree may be arranged followed by dinner and conversation.
If you wish to play outside this dynamic I will have games such as spin the wheel and random die.
Cash meets or Cash drops for the thrill of it: