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#16
Financial Domination Discussion / A review: Findoms.com
February 07, 2016, 09:07:22 AM
Please bear in mind.  This is only a review of the website known as findoms.com.  This is only my personal opinion of the site findoms.com.  It is only based on my own reviews and my own thoughts on the site.  You may have other opinions of findoms.com.  If so you are invited to reply in the comments. 

Being that I have been involved in the FD interest basically all my life I have seen FD Blogs, Forums  and Websites come and go.  For example:  Their was once a site called My Financial Domination Site.  (MFDS)  That site went off line a few years ago.  Before that in the early 2000s up to about 2005, their was a popular FD Forum site called Financial Slavery . Net 

In my own opinion FS. Net Was probably the best on the FD interest.   Not a single FD Forum, Site or Blog site has yet matched it.  FS. Net was by far not perfect and had issues with trolls and the hostility as well.  But, IMO it was the best so far.  FS. Net went of line about 2005 after the Web Site owner understandably so, became disillusioned with the FD interest.

Fin Doms .com in my opinion is a fake FD site.  A home for Preverts, Freak, Morons, Knuckleheads, Penis Pic Senders and the like.  It is not a FD site and I have yet to see a True FD on that website.  It has low class and disrespects critics of the topics.  If you are a True FD if you have a profile on the Findoms .com Site I suggest leaving that site.  You are not doing the FD interest any good. 

My personal dislike of Findoms .com is the high amount of Penis Pics.  It seems a high percentage of the Male Profiles involve some kind of a Male Penis in the Profile image.  That is why I call Fin Doms . Com:   The Penis Pic Senders Paradise Website. 

Fin Doms .com = Fake Financial Domination.
#17
Financial Domination Discussion / Re: Are Financial Dominants victims of sexual abuse?
February 04, 2016, 07:41:37 PM
Thank you for your response.   Being that you are the only one who responded,  I again Thank you and appreciate that you actually replied to the topic. 

First off:   I respect Female Sex Workers and will support them whenever I can.  However, the reality of that industry is far different than what it seems.  And quite ugly.   I am still waiting for just one Sex Worker who is at least well known to state publicly that Sex Work is a great profession for girls to pursue in their adulthood.   I am sure one or two may be out there.  But, I have yet to know of them. 

However, If you visit so claimed '"Experts" on the topic for example.  Mrs Lobert from [Hookers for Jesus] they will openly state that Sex Workers are indeed past victims of sexual abuse and will make the claim that sex workers are indeed re  - living their sexual abuse by being sex workers. 

Within the Criminal Justice system one after another Women who have been arrested for sexual related crimes would openly admit and claim they are sexual abuse victims.  In a very high percentage BTW.  I am not saying it is true and accurate.  But, leading experts on that subject do state that.  I am just stating that they say it.  I am just repeating the information.

If you choose to deny it that is your option.

As for sending you payment for your time and energy of your comment;  I am a owned Money Slave.  My Owner would have to approve and instruct me to send you money.  And I can already tell you that is not likely going to meet her approval.

But, I do believe that if you are indeed a True FD you should have every right to the income and assets of your owned money slaves.  And if you are a True FD I hope money does make it your way. 
#18
Financial Domination Discussion / Another Truth about the Financial Domination Interest.
January 20, 2016, 09:14:54 PM
I have often wondered about the interest that Financial Dominants and those who claim to be Financial Dominants about their sincerity of wanting and the ability to be a financial dominant. 

Obviously some of the Cam Show Entertainers who role play the act of a financial dominant will freely admit they are simply doing cam shows in the FD Genre because their is a demand for that role play.  So obviously those Cam Show entertainers are not sincere about being a financial dominant.

We who have been in the Financial Domination Art for some time even know that their are a lot of those claiming to be financial dominants who are out to simply make a quick buck and know they are not a a financial dominant and not even possessing a dominant personality.  However,  they think if a guy wants to give them some money to call them a loser they will do it.  That is, for a price.     

But, what about  those who claim to be financial dominants?  Those  who consider themselves to be a financial dominant and will practice the art of financial domination?

I am a big time critic of the fake and pseudo FD's.  And will often claim that almost all of FD is fake.  I would even say greater than 99% of what is said to be FD is in reality not FD. 

Being that I have experience in the FD world of over 45 years  I believe I can correctly state that the best financial dominant barely reaches the standard of being a True FD.

Why do I think that?

The main reasoning is that Women by their very nature in almost all cases cannot be natural in a dominant setting.  Further, they likely are only acting dominant only because some man wants them to take on the role of a dominant Woman.  The point is most women are not capable of being a FD on their own. 

Here is the Truth:  Men are what make the FD interest.  Women in their natural state cannot be financial dominant.  They operate on a very relational aspect of their brain. It is the way they are created.

So can a woman be a True FD?   In almost all cases the answer is:  No.  However, a Woman who may have some dominant characteristics can be a True FD.  I would just say the probable percentage of Woman who claim to be involved in the FD interest who are indeed naturally dominant I think is probably 1 in 5,000.  If even that!

Any thoughts?





#19
Financial Domination Discussion / It's a Man!
January 15, 2016, 07:22:23 PM
One of the oldest fake financial domination tricks in the book are men pretending to be Female Financial Dominants.  It is quite amusing to see them pop up (No pun intended).   

We who have been in the financial domination interest for a number of years have seen a wide multitude of fake financial dominants come and go along with their scams.  But, the idea of a man pretending to be a female financial dominant has got to be the most common and easily recognized fraud within the FD interest.

In reality, probably not all too common.  However, I can remember the days of the old AOL BDSM so called Fin Dom chat rooms were almost a majority of men pretending to be Woman Financial Dominants.   Back in those days the online world of FD was a still relatively new activity.  The internet was still young and internet users were quite inexperienced.  Fake and wannabe money slaves also ventured into the FD scene thinking they could convince a girl to show them some promising to send them a few $.  Since Web Cams were not yet built into Desk Top PC's  and the Web Cams that were out there were at best grainy and expensive.    To make money as a fake woman FD the man impersonating a woman could simply obtain pictures and even sometimes videos from such sites as Russian Mail Order Bride Sites.  The fake FD could then build a profile from that.  Some inventive and imaginative  men could develop a whole personality with the fake profile and make a whole Yahoo Group based on this non existent phantom profile.  If the guy was good he could even splice videos and make it appear in the video the woman would appear and appear to be communicating in a web cam.  You have to give them credit, some of those guys were really good.  And probably made some good money with this fake persona.

Eventually probably by about 2002 people got smarter and could know the fake and started demanding proof pictures and proof videos.  The fake business soon disappeared for the most part .  Only coming back once in a while and soon realizing the clients were a step ahead of them. 

Now they seem to be coming back. And with a vengeance.   The mass influx of fake websites and fake FD's coming from the U.K and new generation of millennial U.S fake doms have lately been feeding a new batch of fakery.  Some of which even would surprise long term FD Veterans. 

It is quite easy to overcome the fakes.

1.  Never send money to a profile no matter how enticing the talk and the pictures are.  Until you have absolute proof of the identity of the FD.

2.  Realize that no True FD if she is a True FD would be bothered by proving herself.  In fact, you would think a True FD wants to prove she is a True FD. 

3.  Be persistent.  We have to fight these fakes whenever they appear.  They are an onslaught to the FD interest.  Insist on proof.  Do not send money to anyone not proven.
#20
Domme Introductions / Re: Just a Recommended Suggestion for FD's from a $ Slave.
January 11, 2016, 09:58:16 PM
Thank you for the affirmation. 
#21
Domme Introductions / Just a Recommended Suggestion for FD's from a $ Slave.
January 10, 2016, 10:15:04 PM
Hello.

If you are Financial Dominant I would like to help you with your Introductions.   As a life long money slave I would like to suggest these things for a Financial Dominant who desire to introduce herself in order to attract new prospects.

1.  Get a You Tube Account.  Post a Introduction Video explaining who you are and your interest.  However, be aware that You Tube does not allow adult themed videos.  So keep it PG Rated.  You Tube has been known to delete You Tube Accounts with links to Adult sites.  So do not include any link to a Cam Show site. 

2.  Start a Blog.  Post your Pictures and Videos and a more detailed written description of yourself.  Again,  add your interest and what you are seeking in a money slave.  Be original, be honest and be sincere.   

3.  I would suggest a Twitter Account and/or a Instagram Account .  You can make your Twitter or Instagram Private if you want.  However doing so makes your account accessible only to your selected money slaves and fans to have access to you.   Always remember to keep your account active.  I recommend to Post something at least once a week. 

4.  Be willing to answer prospect questions. 

5.  In your Introductions post how a prospect can contact you and learn more about you. 

6.  You do not necessarily need your own web site.   But, if you do get a web site make sure you update it on a regular basis.  Always be aware that for some money slaves may not prefer FD's with a web site as they may think you are enslaving a lot of money slaves.  Some money slaves prefer FD's with only a small number of slaves.  So unless you intend to own a lot of slaves a web site probably is not a good idea.  A Blog, Twitter, Instagram and You Tube can work just as well.    Also be aware that most FD Web Sites are maintained on Adult Web Site Servers.  Which for some money slaves may also be a distraction.   

7.  Always be mindful that how you write and express yourself to a target audience.  Meaning if you write and post sexual explicit material you may very well attract the more sexual themed responses.  Which also may distract the more subdued real money slaves. 

Trust me.  As a money slave very few prospects will send you any money without some kind of verification of who you are   If a prospect ask you for nude pictures you are probably not communicating with a real money slave.   A real money slave who you do not yet own will not send you penis pics or ask you to send nude images of yourself.

You should write some kind of your Philosophy of Financial Domination.  Meaning what you think FD is. 

If you make it difficult for a slave to contact you most slaves will just say you are too difficult and will just contact some other FD who will.

Do not always think a prospect who does not send you money right away is a Time Waster.  Most real money slaves need to know who you are and can establish some sort of communication with you.  It may take days, a week or even months.   If you are a True FD you will know fairly quick just how the prospect writes to you if he is seriously interested. 

Realize:  If you own a Money Slave you will have to trust your Money Slave.  That means you will have to allow him to send your money to your Bank via Online Transfer.  Very few real money slaves can tolerate sending your money via a third party.  Forget the Gift Rocket Crap.  No real money slave will want to send you money that way. 

If you cannot trust a money slave the FD interest may not be for you. 


#22
Financial Domination Discussion / Are Financial Dominants victims of sexual abuse?
January 09, 2016, 10:45:36 PM
According to almost all accounts the vast majority of Sex Workers have reported that they were abused sexually.  A good number of that % have claimed that they were abused sexually as minors.

Most studies have also concluded that Women who enter the Adult/Sex Industry do so as a result of that sexual abuse and relive the experience within the acts of the Adult and Sex Industry. 

Some Financial Dominants especially those FD's who have connections to fetish web sites and produced sexual based cam shows for example will often freely admit they are sex workers.

So that begs the question:  Are Financial Dominants victims of sexual abuse?  Further are financial dominants being sexually exploited by their money slaves?

This question made me think.  Obviously as a money slave I would prefer to be in service to a financial dominant who can meet my personal preferences and practice them.  So am I as a Money Slave in reality exploiting my financial dominant who would know I likely would not want to be in her service if she did not meet my own personal preferences?  Such as in how she looks, acts, her personality etc. 

Being that almost all of what is claimed to be financial domination is in reality not financial domination I would tend to believe that most of the claimed financial dominants are indeed victims of sexual abuse and thus would probably not want to be financial dominants if not for the reliving of their past sexual abuse. 

Any thoughts on this topic?    Please share your comments. 
#23
Other Fetishes / Fetish Interest
January 02, 2016, 12:19:00 AM
I often incorporate my other interest into my primary interest of Financial Domination:

1.  Pregnancy Fetish:  I have a big and growing (No pun intended) interest in Pregnant in particular, Pregnant FD's.  I have only been able to experience it a very few times in my life but, one of the most pleasant and relaxing as well as probably the most arousing thing to do is to rub a pregnant Woman tummy.  More so, if she is a Pregnant FD that I am in service to.  Personally,  I would like to see a lot more FD's become pregnant and reproducing. 

2.  Legs:  I consider myself a Legs Freak.  I refer to nice legs as:  Money Maker Legs.  For me, being able to rub them is easily worth some big money.  If I am in service to a FD and she allows me to rub her legs telling me that as soon as I rub her legs I would acquire a $50,000.00 Debt to her and be bound to her for life I would think that as a bargain deal.   I would just hope the relationship would last for life so I can work on that debt and be happy about it.   FD's should emphasize more on their legs. 

3.  Cheerleader Fetish:  I think every FD should have at least one real Cheerleader Uniform.  FD's should be the Cheerleader of their money slaves using that natural god given nurturing characteristic to cheer on  their slaves.  Combined with that legs and pregnancy fetish that to me is a binding forever action.
#24
Financial Domination Discussion / Anxiety of those in the FD interest.
January 01, 2016, 11:05:24 PM
To be a money slave or a financial dominant in the true sense of the term requires a unique personality.  Both Financial Dominants and Money Slaves can suffer from bouts of anxiety and even depression and even maybe a feeling of low self worth within the FD interest about issues within and involving the FD Interest.

A Financial Dominant may have an overwhelming concern that her money slave is not disclosing income or assets.  Maybe the FD may think her Slave is secretly sending money to another FD.  Maybe the FD may think her slave is secretly communicating with another FD.  That anxiety may get even worse if the money slave is communicating with another FD and that other FD is targeting the Money Slave seeking that money Slave to be a slave to her.  Encouraging the Money Slave that his present FD does not meet his expectations or pointing out flaws with that FD.  These efforts can be subliminal or even very direct.  For some FD's the need to control a number of Money Slaves may be overwhelming her sense of ethics that she would not take a Slave of another FD.  Lets face it.  For some FD's they have that massive need of control and that need can be overwhelming for some. 

Financial Dominants may also have anxiety over the Money Slave cannot seem to find a better job or income.  Granted, to be a True FD a True FD is more interested in the control and obedience and the service, loyalty and dedication her slave gives her.  However, the FD may believe her slave is underpaid and wants him to be more assertive to receive promotion or she may believe her slave should be higher paid.  Or maybe even the Slave cannot find a job.  Those issues can also cause anxiety for a FD.

Another anxiety is that FD's may not be able to relax due to transfer methods.  For example did the Slave transfer her money to the correct account?  Why is it taking so long to get her money?  Very real anxiety for a FD.

For Money Slaves.  At least for me, one of my biggest anxieties is a lack of communication.  Other reasons for anxiety may be:    Why does not my FD respond to me?  Is my FD being honest?  Is my FD misleading me?  Is my FD in reality just another fake FD? 

Another anxiety a money slave may face is:  Does my FD appreciate my efforts to serve her? 

What about the feeling: 

1.   I do not feel as though my FD knows how to be a FD.

2.  I feel as though my FD lacks the ability to fully grasp what it means to be a FD.

3.  She is disengaged, indifferent, out of touch and/or she does not understand me. 

I know those feelings all too well.  I have been involved and in contact with probably at least 60 FD's in my lifetime  (Granted, maybe many were not True FD's).  I know what it is like to be in service to a FD and to have a nagging feeling the FD does not know what she is doing.  She cannot even manage her own affairs.  How can I expect her to be able to own me and make those necessary ordering of my own life so I can feel like a Real Money Slave?   

I have seen very indifferent FD's.  Who are reality Lazy.  Some may even have a sense of control  but, thy may be so lazy they have no interest to do anything.  Except maybe stay home and play video Games all day long.

Maybe the FD only interest is in her own personal visual surroundings.   

I for one as a White Slave with a high preference for Black and Non White FD's have found that seems to be a big problem among many Black FD's.  I am only referring to my own personal experience with the Black FD's that I have encountered.  So do not take my description as a stereotype.  Just in my own personal observations almost without exception of the FD's I have come in contact with who are Black always seem to be very indifferent.  They have little interest for anything outside of their own personal sphere of influence.  They hate travelling or visiting anything such as natural forms.  Have a a very low appreciation of art and have almost no or very little interest t in adventures and viewing new things.  I of course am only referring to those Black FD's I have associated with.   However,  I seen some of the writings of other Black FD's and I have seen those indicators as well.   To me, being a White Slave with a high preference for Black FD's and being that I have a very active imagination and a high sense of adventure and a need for viewing the "Good" cause me some level of high anxiety.  Especially seeing that I see a high degree of indifference and unenthusiastic, and disengaged Black FD's. 

Another anxiety is communication.  I have been labeled by some FD's as being "Needy"  Even a past FD of mine accused me of being "needy" on at least a couple occasions.  That is another issue that causes me anxiety.  When a FD uses the term; Needy as labeled to a Money Slave to me means the relationship is going to end very soon.  Communication in a FD relationship just like any other non FD relationship to be secure and successful must involve open and accessible communication.  Granted some Money Slaves might be overwhelming for a FD .  Even still as soon as the FD considers her Slave to be "Needy"  the relationship will soon die or should just end then and there.    I personally do not think I am "needy"  I just need a FD who can be receptive to my reports to her, be accessible, answer and reply to communication.  As well the FD should have genuine interest in the well being of her slave.  If the FD does not enjoy communicating with her slave she might as well just end the relationship then and there. 

Those are some things I think can cause anxiety within the FD Interest.

But how do you fix it?  How can someone involved in the FD interest find relief from anxiety?

If  the first issue is that if your Slave or FD causes you anxiety probably best to let the FD or Money Slave know it.  If the FD or Money Slave is not willing to relieve the anxiety maybe a change of relationship may be the best option.  Maybe the two of you are not compatible?  Maybe you as a Money Slave overwhelm the FD and the FD feels you are burden?  So maybe best to end the relationship. 

Granted,  for us Money Slaves we have an advantage in the FD interest.  Hundreds of claimed FD's are out there.  Granted almost all are fake FD, Scammers and Frauds.  However, with a little bit of research and maybe some effort we generally can easily find a available FD.  Or at least a FD that might attract our interest. It may take a transfer just so the FD may think you are serious.  But generally we as money slaves have that little bit of advantage.

For FD's Maybe try to get to know your Slave.  Know his interest.  Know what makes your sick tick.  If it is reasonable and something you can also enjoy maybe your relationship can be successful. 

I as a money slave enjoy the appreciation of my FD and when I know my FD is sincerely happy with my efforts then it motivates me to be even more willing to go all out for my FD.

If your slave overwhelms you or you feel your slave is too much work maybe you should end the relationship.  The money no matter how much it is if the relationship is too difficult for you the best option may be to tell your Slave or prospect that you are not interested in their service.  In reality, most Slaves are at least average in intelligence.  If they know or even sense you are not serious about being a FD and are principally only concerned about the $ do you really think your Slave would stick around after a new, prettier FD shows up?  No need to subject to a future hardship.  Just end it.  Tell the Slave you are not interested is the best option. 

#25
General Forum / Re: Other Sites You're On?
January 01, 2016, 09:49:18 PM
Recently I visited some of your blog.  Fairly interesting entries.  One of these days I will try to read more in depth what you write. 
#26
Financial Domination Discussion / Are Financial Dominants often guilty of committing fraud?
December 30, 2015, 10:01:18 PM
If  you are a financial dominant or even a money slave or someone who is involved in FD before you jump on my case for writing something against FD's make sure you read the article.  Do not presume I am writing something that I am not.  O.K? 

I have been thinking about FD and how it relates to financial ethics.  Lets face it.  FD is about money.  and what does money bring out in people?  Greed,  Lust for money, self interest and a wide variety of vices.  In the corporate world  we often hear about Corporate CEO's accused of Fraud,  I.E  Enron.  for example.  As well as that Wolf of Wall Street guy.  What did they do that brought about investigations of their finances?  Misrepresenting their intent and defrauding their clients. 

I am not saying that all FD's are guilty of fraud.  However, if they misrepresent themselves.  Pretend to be someone that they are not.  Make false claims to a money slave, Mislead a Money Slave to expect something that they will never fulfill.  etc.  In those case the FD could be held criminally and civil liable. 

If a FD makes a money slave think that the money slave will actually meet the FD in person for example and the FD knows that will never happen would that be fraud?  Clearly the answer has to be Yes. 

Does the FD convince a money slave that if he gives her more access and control that the FD will be in love with the money slave.  i.e reproduce, marriage or be in a long term commitment with the slave is that fraud? Well if the FD led the money slave to think doing those things would produce a reasonable expectation of those returns then the FD could be criminally and civil liable as well. 

However the reality is would any of these cases ever make it to court?  Most likely not.

1.  In the Non FD world almost every non FD involved person would think the money slave is a fool for being a money slave in the first place.

2.  Likely most money slaves are already married to non dominant  and non FD women.  So they probably would not want to pursue legal action anyway. 

So what should be done?  Probably their is no recourse for a wronged money slave.  Even if his case did make it to court he would likely be laughed at. 

FD's should know that they are the one who receive direct financial benefit from the FD activities.  Money Slaves obviously do not gain any financial benefit since they are the income producers for the FD.  That being the case it is the burden of the FD to make she sure she honestly and truthfully represents herself of who she really is.  If the slave begins to get more seriously bound to the FD the FD either has to set a more clear limit or accept the further binding to herself and accommodate the expectations of the money slave.    it is that simple.

FD's should not be like the Snake Oil salespeople of the 19th century.  Be honest who you are,  Make sure your Slave/clients know what you will deliver in exchange for your slave service to you. Avoid being misunderstood.  Be clear, be honest,  do not commit fraud.   Don't let yourself be another of the majority of fake FD practitioners:  The scams, the cheats and the con artist. 

Personally, I would like to see fake FD's in jail and in court answering and receiving justice for their fraudulent FD activities.

#27
General Forum / Re: Other Sites You're On?
December 26, 2015, 11:40:23 PM
I have a Non Public Twitter Account and a You Tube Account.   I also have a Live Journal account a Blogger Account and Photo Bucket Account. 

I use some Face Book but only due to some people I know post on Face Book. 

As for FD sites.  The so called FD Sites are almost always without exception not Financial Domination Sites.  They may have started out well.  However, they have been just about literally taken over by fakes, frauds, scammers, Penis Pic Senders, Insta Doms, Preverts, Psychos and a very wide assortment of low lifes. 

#28
Real Time Sessions With Findoms / My personal experiences with Financial Domination relationships and in person.
December 25, 2015, 06:36:16 PM
I have met in person with several of the financial dominants that I have served to some degree who I have initially met online. 

However,  I do not refer to them as "Sessions".   I call them just meeting a FD in person.  "Sessions" to me to me is too much like paying to meet someone.  Which to me,  I have never paid a FD for anything.

Anyhow,

The experiences have been mixed. 

Being a Money Slave to some degree for over 45 years I obviously would have been involved with FD's well before the so called "Online Financial Domination Interest".  Going well back into the 1980's and even 1970's. 

First episodes were being forced to hand over some lunch money, paper route money and into my early work history leading into adulthood.  I personally do not recall any time in my life where I was not involved with a FD in some sort of capacity or degree.  However, the term "Financial Domination",  "Money Slavery" did not even exist.  It was just called being used for the benefit of someone else.  You could call it Bullying.  However, in my case,  I do not ever think I was ever bullied or forced to give or transfer money to anyone against my will.  In fact, most of the time after handing over my measly pay checks I was very happy afterwards and looked forward to the next time.   Later when I was making my military pay I know for me I felt a need to transfer my pay check to a pretty Philippine Woman in exchange for her willingness to enjoy my presence and be with me.    To me that was all I sought in life and very contented in serving. 

I can also remember about 1997/1998 first discovering the Online world of Financial Domination.  The Preverted AOL Chat-rooms on the topic were some of the sickest form of preversions I have seen.  However, once in a while a True FD would pop up that might attract my interest. 

My first successful online contact with a FD occurred about 1998 and was with a Atlanta based FD named Goddess Mistress Octavia.  I sent her $60.00 and her response was "Why so little?"  Never contacted her again after as she definitely was not my type.  However, I soon learned about the Online World of Financial Domination was almost always the same as it is today.  Preverts, Frauds, Psychos, Knuckleheads, Instas and the like.  Nothing has changed!

I often laugh at some people involved in the interest claiming to remember a so called "Golden Era of Online FD".  Sorry to tell you this. Their has never been a Golden Era of Online FD.  Their have always, fakes, Instas, Frauds, Scammers, Rip-Offs, Preverts, Penis Pic Senders, Morons,Psychos  and Knuckleheads within FD and always will be.   FD is a magnet for freaks, fakes, preverts, frauds and the like. 
 
My first online FD relationship whom I later met in person was with a FD from New Bedford, Massachusetts named Kristina.  Visited her twice and found her to be a cold, distant personality and on the detached side of life too.  I have no idea why I continued as her slave as long as I did.  She was a real piece of work!   

The second FD I met in person occurred about 2005 with a FD from Orcas Island, Washington State.  She was married to a Mormon Bigamist.  However, she was actually a fairly good FD.  Even though she probably did not want to be a FD.  She probably more was interested in selling cam shows.  I ended that relationship after about two years due to the distance was just too great to maintain the relationship that I thought could work.  One of the highlights of that meeting was that she actually did a in person ATM Cash Withdraw of $400.00 and she was quite receptive of my presence.  However, as I said the distance was just too great and I could never get the feeling she really wanted to be a FD. 

I also met a Former online active FD named Andrea who lived in Lansing, Michigan at the time.  She was extremely pretty.  However,  I thought she was afraid of me even though she practiced FD online fairly well.  That relationship ended after I felt she could not trust me and often mismanaged her money.  She also bothered me that she neglected her offspring.  One of the big things that bothered me was that she convinced me to buy her a $740.00 set of Earrings.  A few months later she pawned the earrings for $50.00 to get a Carton of Cigarettes,  Then lied to me about it.  Claiming the earrings were lost at a gym. 

Her tobacco addiction really bothered me as I thought she wasted money and neglected things she should not neglect.  As well as she would make very illogical decisions.  I also questioned her ability to be a dominant after I learned her former husband would often assault her and then get back with him.  Andrea could be a excellent FD at one moment and the next moment be very neglectful.  However, I enjoyed her in person ATM Withdraws and her very attractive looks.    I served her off and on for about 5 years.  And in fact, at one time we are engaged. 

My most recent former  FD I have visited her twice.  That relationship just ended less than a week ago.   I could never get over the feeling that she was unenthusiastic about the relationship and that she was not very communicative at all.  I believe in a True FD Relationship just as any relationship requires a consistent and constant open access communication.  Granted, she was ill for a long time which I often excused.  However, still could not overcome the feeling of her being distant and unenthusiastic about me or the relationship  Even though knowing of her over 6 years and serving her 5 years.  We were even engaged and still she seemed unenthusiastic. I also felt she refused to take the engagement seriously.  Which annoyed me to no end.  Which I explained to her quite often.   Her responses seemed to have very unenthusiastic, Cold, short and Terse.  And when she did respond it seemed as though the communication would end abruptly. 

Granted,  I was aware she was ill and under medications.  But, still felt she could better communicate and honestly update me clearly which she could not or would not do.

I am now looking forward to a new FD relationship that will be True and life long,  Something that has painfully eluded me for the past 45 years as a money slave. 

I also served a FD about 2004 named Megan who was a Nurse from Bloomington,  Illinois.  I was going to visit her.  Was on the Plane and then received a Text Message from her while on the Plane Boarding Gate that she could not meet with me. 
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Financial Domination Discussion / Merry Christmas 2015 for those in the FD Interest.
December 25, 2015, 11:22:13 AM
Merry Christmas!

Especially Merry Christmas to those involved in the FD Interest!

If you live in the Eastern Part of the United States it being so warm and humid today you probably think it sure does not feel like Christmas. 

The way I look at this weather is this:

This is perfect weather for a Male Money Slave to meet up with a Pretty Central American Undocumented Immigrant in a effort to reproduce with her.   That way she can enslave you for at least the next 18 years and you become a real, literal path for her and your offspring to obtain U.S Citizenship.  Definitely would benefit all involved. 

If you are a Female FD maybe you can support that effort or even reproduce yourself and make your money slave responsible for your offspring?  Just my suggestion.

#30
Religion / Re: What is your Religious Preference? Let me know if I left some out.
December 24, 2015, 11:21:24 PM
Wanted to survey the religious beliefs of those involved in the FD interest.   Thank you. 
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