Findom has become a big part of the 24/7 D/s relationship in which I serve a strict Domme who is very demanding in all aspects of our life together. Our first foray into Findom was as a punishment for my bad behaviour.

It kept expanding until now 70% of my net pay goes directly to her every paycheque. She calls it tuition for the training she is providing to me. On top of that I pay for most household expenses, and if I run out of money she assigns the debt to 'the Queens Bank' and charges me 5% tax weekly on the outstanding balance.

She loves money and her goal is to creatively take everything I have. For me there is a tremendous excitement in the power exchange and loss of control. There is something exciting about being in the crosshairs of a predator who seeks to devour you--in this case, devour my wallet and my independence.

I am in a 24/7 D/s relationship. I moved in 2 1/2 years ago and while we were friends prior, I really didn't know that she was a Domme.

Our relationship is platonic.

In the first year she quickly established that I was her sub and we lived life together but she will not be questioned on her decisions. That year was rocky because while I enjoy submitting, it is not my nature. We had some major battles and I had to accept that I was her subordinate. It's still a struggle at times but she broke me down that first year.

About a year and a half ago she suggested she take over all the finances. Neither of us had considered Findom, in fact, from my knowledge of the topic I could not understand why a sub would just give away their hard earned money.

I won't cover all the details on our journey in my intro, but suffice to say we both discovered an affinity for Findom. I make pretty good income and most of it goes to her.

I'll end this intro by saying that for me Findom equates to a type of bondage. The feeling of losing control is my trigger. Findom has become a big part of our relationship and it is truly a win/win for us both.