Wow. you are so off base here. As a Professional Domme with previous sex working experience who also works in sexual health education, people like you are the reason I do the work that I do. Repeating unfounded information is a systemic issue that continues to marginalize and victimize otherwise healthy, intelligent, driven women who happen to work in the sex industry.
The unfortunate truth is that 1-in-4 women will experience intimate partner violence in their lifetime (source:
http://www.thehotline.org/resources/statistics/) That includes sex workers, so it’s safe to say that at least 1-in-4 sex workers has or will experience intimate partner violence. Looking at the way our political and cultural systems criminalize and demean sex workers, it’s far more likely that sex workers experience abuse because of their work than that they enter the field because of past abuse. Many do survival sex work, not necessarily because they have been abused, but because intersectional systems of oppression including classism and racism prevent some groups of women from fairly accessing other educational, employment and housing opportunities. The “damaged woman” and “daddy issues” tropes that insinuate that sex workers choose this work because they have been abused is disrespectful and inaccurate.
Some may, many do not. We are individuals. you should work on your ability to handle your personal concerns by educating yourself and communicating with any potential Domme you serve, rather than making gross generalizations.
Now, if you’re a sincere submissive who truly values the time and expertise of the Dommes you interact with, you’ll compensate Me for the energy I just spent setting you straight: cash.me/$DominaCrane
