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Author Topic: Can a Financial Dominant be Paid or given money?  (Read 2403 times)

sgtjdusar

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Can a Financial Dominant be Paid or given money?
« on: December 09, 2015, 02:46:38 AM »
Pay Me!  Frack You,  Pay Me!   Give me your Money!  Give me Money!  Give your Money to Women! 

Pay Me!:    A Financial Dominant who owns a Money Slave(s)  if the FD does indeed own the money slave, the money a money slave produces for the FD is already the owned money of the FD.  Therefore, a True Financial Dominant cannot be paid as a financial dominant by her money slave.   This term of "Pay Me!"  is a term that is contradictory to the whole art of financial domination.  If you are a money slave and you see this term you can be assured you likely are not viewing entries of a True Financial Dominant.  Because the simple fact is a Financial Dominant owns the income and assets of her money slave.  So thus she cannot pay herself to be a FD.

The exceptions to this rule are of course is if a FD is getting paid for services not related to FD.  Such as being paid for a Cam Show.  Unless her slave is the one receiving the cam show.  If the slave pays her for the service it would not be considered a valid FD Transfer.   

The other exception would be if a FD receives money as a FD from a slave not owned or not yet owned by her.  But, once the slave is owned by the FD if the relationship is a True FD relationship money that the slave produces for the FD is already the money of the FD.  The money Slave is simply transferring funds he produced to the FD.

Granted,  New FD's who are not experienced with FD may not fully grasp the concepts of all of FD and may confuse the term of being paid.  but, a True FD should soon know that being Paid is not possible in a True FD relationship.

Frack You,  Pay Me!:   Same as the above about Pay Me.  However, adding Frack or the more direct profane word is probably without class or dignity.  Granted some people find profanity natural to them.  However,  it is probably better for a True FD to avoid being seen as undignified or of a base living. 

Give me your Money!,  Give me Money!,   Give your Money to Women!L   Once again poor use of language by a True FD.   Also a mistaken concept of FD.  Just as in the Pay Me term a money slave cannot give money to his FD.  The FD already owns the money if it is a True FD relationship.   It would probably be better for a FD to order her slave to send her money to her personal account., Or to directly hand the money to her.  Or transfer her money to her.  But for a FD to tell a money slave to "give me your money!" is contradictory to the FD art as well.   A Slave cannot give money to a FD that the FD already owns

I know of a supposed Twitter account personality who takes pride in using the term:  "Give your Money to Women!"  Using that term is obviously not a FD concept and definitely does not cater to money slaves.

If you are Money Slave looking for a FD.  Be wary of claimed FD's using those terms.  If you are a FD it is always best to be careful how you come across to others.  Do your words, actions, practices and deeds and ethics reflect well on the art of financial domination? 
« Last Edit: December 10, 2015, 05:01:11 AM by sgtjdusar »
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Re: Can a Financial Dominant be Paid or given money?
« Reply #1 on: December 10, 2015, 04:44:13 PM »
Oh dear God...you make all this look like a set of SO strict rules, that you are taking away all the great and entertainment part of being a moneyslave.

I believe everyone must be free of living findom the way he wants. I also have things i don't consider coming from a real Goddess (like if SHE is the one coming to you asking to be her slave, then she's not a real goddess) but i wouldn't go so far as you did.

First of all...it all depends if you are spoiling just one Goddess or more than one. In my case, with the exception of a few months, i have never been loyal to just one Goddess. Hence all you wrote can't be applied...because it's still my money.

MOreover....let's be practical here. We all have a life other than findom (with few exceptions)...so... how can we experience financial domination, if we apply your rules? How can i have a family and still be a moneyslave, if the Goddess owns my whole money.

I think you are making it all a bit too "extreme". In the end, we are here because we have a fetish and because we want to embrace it. Everyone has to find his balance in being a moneyslave, there is not a set of rules written on stone with fire. Let's just try all to be a bit more flexible.

Again...i also have a few things that horrifies me (like i said), and that make me react in the worst possible way against those "goddesses wannabe"...but i do think you went a bit too far. :)

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Re: Can a Financial Dominant be Paid or given money?
« Reply #2 on: December 13, 2015, 12:53:32 AM »
yourmoneyslave.

Thank you for responding.  However,  I do not think you understood the opinion.  Or maybe you have preconceived ideas of the opinion.

First,  as you so stated:  "First of all...it all depends if you are spoiling just one Goddess or more than one".  Obviously in that situation you are or were not owned by a particular FD.  So the concept of Not being able to pay a FD would not apply to you if the FD does not own you.   Maybe re-read what I wrote? 

Second,  A True FD (If she is a good FD who knows what she is doing) if her slave is is married or has other family obligations would probably best adapt to the situation.  So the FD probably would want to make sure her owned Slave is able to meet his own personal and family obligations.  I.e Paying Utility Bills, Car Insurance, Medical Bills,  Child Tuition, etc.  A good FD probably does not want to upset the Apple Cart.  Providing if she intends the relationship to be in the Long or Life term.  I know some FD's claim that they want to Bankrupt Slaves or want them to eat Ramen Noodles.  Etc.  However, I still think a smart FD would make efforts to make sure her slave obligations are met.  Providing of course if she intends it to be in the long or life term.   Let's face it.  I am very certain that almost all FD's are aware their owned slaves are likely married or in permanent established relationships.  Just common sense for a True FD to keep all things in her practice of the FD art.     That will be another subject worth writing a topic on in the future. 

As for "strict rules".  I do not consider it that way.  But more just common sense practice in the FD Art.  Obviously if you are not owned by a FD you would be paying her for your "entertainment" which you so stated.  I can guarantee that if you use that term:  You are my "entertainment." to a True FD she would not be pleased with that description.  At least the FD's I know anyway. 

Also,  being that I am not an authority on the FD Art, nor would I even want to be such an authority, I cannot make any rules for the practice of FD.  They are my opinions for the best practice of FD.  Take them or leave them.  But,  I think they work.  Then again,  I am very pessimistic the way FD is practiced  in most cases. 

Anyway,  Thanks again YMS.  Happy Times for you.

« Last Edit: December 23, 2015, 04:10:03 AM by sgtjdusar »
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Re: Can a Financial Dominant be Paid or given money?
« Reply #3 on: December 21, 2015, 03:40:35 PM »
LMAO!!!

I find there are so many different FinDoms with various quirks, and this is one aspect I don't particularly care for... Desperation is not the way to go...
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