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Confessions and Consensual Blackmail is an interesting part of the Financial Domination fetish.
For the FinDom it's about having the ultimate experience of having FULL CONTROL of some pathetic pompous ass, because for whatever reason, they do NOT want that control over their own lives.

Most of the Consentual Blackmail submissives provide you with credit cards for you to use as leverage. Other's provide you with phone numbers, addresses and such. I prefer having as much information on the fucking loser as possible.

With any of my regular paypigs, I love being able to send them texts, write through email and/or, and send little gifts through the mail (at their expense of course). Doing this makes the experience more enjoyable and fun for both parties. I talk with them about life in general as well. I even make them become accustomed to the music I listen to. Because I want them to think of me OFTEN...

For me... It's NOT just about the money; it's about complete CONTROL of body and mind!!

I have recently retrieved one of these individuals who seek loss of control in the most extreme way... Being Consensual Blackmail. This guy is the first true scat money slave, which for me is perfect. As I have a creative imagination when it comes to that particular fetish. (To read more about Scat, go to the Scatology section here

I will be creating a post just for him on my site, when I have the time...
Which will give me MORE leverage!!!

I have already fined and taxed him on several things
I ordered a small gift on his credit card which will be sent to me first... Then HE WILL PAY for me to send it to his PO Box. I wish I could see his reaction when he opens it

Thank You for Your post Mistress Bella. Does it annoy You that Nigelpooch forgets to properly punctuate Your name? Or is it more annoying random guys who aren't paying You anything even bring that sort of thing up?

It is very nice of You to consider Your slaves enjoyment while blackmailing them!

I do find Your enthusiasm for dominating Your pay pigs very infectious, i think it is that, as well as Your scorching way with words that has me so spellbound by You. I wish You did have time to update Your website more often, i can't wait to read Your post about him. Why don't You just make him to open Your gift back to him on Skype or Webcam or something similar so You can witness his reaction?

You say you prefer having as much information on the losers as possible...... Well you don't ask for too much info at the time of contracting!!! I expected to have to tell you so much more!!


I LOVED reading this post! Thank you.

As I have said to you before Nigel...
There is a method to my madness. As the time goes, comes more voluntary information. Information leaks out without you even realizing it. The more correspondance I have with any of my slaves, means the more I get to know their strengths AND their weaknesses. I know more about their past and present lives. Their day to day life becomes more and more familiar. Their thoughts, feelings, and emotions become known and predictable. I eventually get to know how to push their buttons at any time of the day.

How does the song go??

"Getting to know you.... Getting to know allllllll about youuuuuuu"

This goes with not just blackmail... It goes for ALL of my fucking little shits.

It's kinda what I do



Til next time...
XoXoXo

Quote from: MistressBella on October 16, 2013, 06:59:00 AM

There's parts to this that aren't pleasurable for the slave, but there are many that are. Take the good with the bad...

I like the non pleasurable stuff as much if not more than the pleasurable..... Particularly where fines are imposed for non completion of tasks. That's what being controlled is all about. If you are just asking me to do stuff I like, who is being controlled ? Not me!!

You do like the very things that make you go into a tantrum?
You could have surprised me...LOL

Oh... I LOVE your avatar and your signature!!
It suits you... Don't you think??
It just shows you... It can be done only with in a couple minutes, and everything could be out in the open....
EVERYTHING!!!

You want to test me?
I dare YOU!!


Til Next Time Minion,
XoXoXoXo

I very well understand what you mean Nigel. And yes it is a strong fantasy of mine too. The line between fantasy and reality can be a very thin one at times, yet when it comes to putting it all out there, that line can be quite the barrier as well. The trouble for us is we dread what we crave. When my Mistress allows me to play with myself, often my most violent orgasm is to fantasies of losing control to a mean and dominant, perhaps even crazy and psychotic Woman.

I very well understand what you mean Nigel. And yes it is a strong fantasy of mine too. The line between fantasy and reality can be a very thin one at times, yet when it comes to putting it all out there, that line can be quite the barrier as well. The trouble for us is we dread what we crave. When my Mistress allows me to play with myself, often my most violent orgasm is to fantasies of losing control to a mean and dominant, perhaps even crazy and psychotic Woman.

I have a few psycho ex's I could introduce you too...lol