I've been dabbling with findom for years now, not because I consider myself a pathetic loser, but because I find this fetish offers many possibilities for mutual play that I find very exciting. These include teamviewer play, playing various games and dares where only I can lose, consensual BM and many more. Being treated like a loser by a bratty domme turns me off, and a successful D/s relationship with me will be one based on trust and a mutual understanding that what we are doing is fun for both of us. I do, however, enjoy being treated like a slave in the role play. I like CFNM and would like my Domme to consider clothing a luxury that I am not allowed when in her presence. My ideal Domme is one with whom I can build up a mutual trust, one who will respect my limits yet will try to extend them gradually so that I can enjoy this fetish more fully.
