Welcome to the forum!
I haven't been on here in a bit, so excuse the lateness of my reply.
Please tell us more about yourself, as I feel it's important in making people more comfortable with your proposition. A lot of individuals in the fetish world or kink community, aren't exactly "Open" about the lifestyle, and once they get to know you over time, it becomes easier to help others understand their needs and desires. Trust, honesty and patience is something you have to acquire in this position.
Tell us about some of your experiences, and how you have come to be who you are now.
Bella~