I'm La Gestionnaire.
I'm not interested in pointless spending, humiliation or watching someone throw their money away just to prove they can.
I want something more interesting: your finances, under
my direction.
You keep your own bank accounts and your actual money. I do not need access to your bank account, cards, passwords or payment credentials.
What I do want is complete transparency about your finances. You show me your income, expenses, savings, debts and goals. YNAB is mandatory, and I expect you to keep it accurate and up to date so I can see the full picture.
If we work together, I decide within the financial boundaries we have agreed on what your money should be doing: what you can spend, what you should cut, what you should save and what financial priorities come first.
My boundaries are simple:
- You remain in control of your actual bank accounts and funds.
- I never need your banking passwords, card details or account access.
- We agree on financial limits before I make decisions.
- I will not deliberately push you into debt, missed bills or financial hardship.
- Your essential living costs, existing obligations and reasonable emergency savings come first.
- No pointless purchases simply for the sake of spending.
- You are expected to be honest about your finances and follow the decisions we agree are mine to make.
- If something would put your financial stability at risk, the answer is no.
I'm looking for someone who
genuinely wants to
surrender financial decision-making, not someone looking to be financially ruined.
If you want a Domme who will actually look at your finances and tell you yes, no, cut this, save this, and do it, send me a message.
Tell me about your financial situation, what you're looking for, and why you think I'd be the right Domme for you.