What is your big turn on about financial domination?
you do it only "online" or you meet in person?
Hello.
I like the power behind this dynamic.
Giving money to someone means giving to this person power, strenght. It't like a human sacrifice. Subs give their money, thus their blood, to their mistresses, and they as an answer become more and more strong, powerful, ang gain more and more control.
thank you for sharing
im weak and helpless under the power of my dominant master and know hes in control over my payments to him, as he knows to how much i need this and that im to weak to not pay him ,
but cant help it as its something i need
thank you for sharing...
Findom has become a big part of the 24/7 D/s relationship in which I serve a strict Domme who is very demanding in all aspects of our life together. Our first foray into Findom was as a punishment for my bad behaviour.
It kept expanding until now 70% of my net pay goes directly to her every paycheque. She calls it tuition for the training she is providing to me. On top of that I pay for most household expenses, and if I run out of money she assigns the debt to 'the Queens Bank' and charges me 5% tax weekly on the outstanding balance.
She loves money and her goal is to creatively take everything I have. For me there is a tremendous excitement in the power exchange and loss of control. There is something exciting about being in the crosshairs of a predator who seeks to devour you--in this case, devour my wallet and my independence.
This is exactly the perspective I've been curious about. I'm new to findom, and what interests me most isn't simply receiving money—it's understanding the psychology behind why giving it up creates such a powerful feeling of submission.
I like that yours developed as part of an existing dynamic rather than money being the entire relationship.
I'm curious: what makes financial control feel genuinely dominant to you rather than simply feeling like you're paying someone? Is it the rules, anticipation, consequences, knowing she decides, or something else?
I'm still figuring out my own style, and hearing the submissive perspective is fascinating. 💋