Findoms Community

I HumanATM, am making a formal public request to Mistress Bella.
So far she has claimed a tribute from me and already declared ownership of my small dick. 
Now I am asking for her permission to please cum.

Mistress Bella,
Please let me cum. You make my cock rock hard and I can barely contain myself. I was intrigued by your beauty and how you humiliate slaves. I only wanted to tell you how erotic it was. But now I feel I've been ensnared. With your hooks already set. My fear is that I might be the next pay pig on the chopping block.

sincerely,
HumanATM

It's been a few days. Is your tiny dickie drippy yet???

Are you enjoying ME owning YOUR cock? Well, now it's MY cock, isn't it??? ick. I want something bigger!

Perhaps another tribute would ease my burden and put me in a better frame of mind to allow you to play with MY tiny dick.

Maybe. 

EWWWW....another tiny dick loser???

You should get on your KNEES and BEG to play with it.

I'm sure no one else ever will 

Right?

I guess I could be nice and grant permission, but.........................................

...................................

.......................

Nope.

Not today. 

LMAO!!!

I find there are so many different FinDoms with various quirks, and this is one aspect I don't particularly care for... Desperation is not the way to go...

I find this to be a very interesting question, which I cannot seem to come to a fair conclusion.
This fetish, or should I say most types of fetishes outside the sexual world, aren't well recepted, understood, etc.

In my experience, the power hungry mongrels are the weakest and most submissive, however could actually lose their "Power" if it were to be found out they were seeking domination online or real-time.

I am Canadian, and though we have some fet events we're "open", there isn't enough understanding around us, for me to say any political party would be best suited for FinDom or anything of the like would be an outright lie.

In the cities, it would be different, HOWEVER, even in those instances, most people don't truly understand the differences, as they would see FinDom, Domming, etc, etc as being a prostitute or something similiar without REALLY thinking about the power and control aspect.

Where I'm from (my specific community), it's definitely not accepted nor understood, so to really explain this with my local MLA would be nearly impossible for a couple of reasons...

-LOCAL meaning, you would have to worry about confidentiality between you and your MLA Representative (no matter what party comes to your door or calls).  There are Dommes who could lose their jobs if what they were doing partime was to come out.

-Since most people lack in the ability to truly think and empathize with others differences (fetishes), I'd be afraid  the representative would just sweep it under the carpet and not say anything, hence releasing any embarassment to him/herself in front of the party members, or just thinking there are more important things to discuss than sexual desires or lifestyles.

We would need someone who is familiar with the fetish world and open to discuss matters in a public forum in person nationwide.

The world we live in, isn't ready... My opinion.

Fucking pathetic, indeed! Absolutely hilarious! The slaves both love it and hate it when I laugh at their misery, as they're groveling. Quite entertaining...lol And yes, the "My friends" aspect is pretty funny, especially as one is laughing (quite hard actually) and the other is commenting on how disgusting or weird they are...lol They aren't always girls, as I have guy friends as well....lolol Pretty humiliating at times.

We've bantered back and forth about granting permission, but usually what happens is making them do a unforeseen task first before granting it... The "Friend" aspect doesn't happen that often, but it does happen, nonetheless. However in saying that, there are times when my partner in crime (boyfriend) is definitely around and he hears all and sees most...lol

I was doing a Skype session one time with a slave that was into Scat, ABDL, Consenusal Blackmail ~Hardcore I might add~ along with many other different things, and Nigel (the slave) could hear my boyfriend. He was feeling so humiliated because there he was naked, with his fully soiled diaper on (or nappy as he called it), had his gross pacifier in his mouth (that he just had in his dirty ass), crying his bloody head off because I was making him do things that he wanted forced.... it wasn't pretty so don't ask unless you REALLY want the answers...lol 

My boyfriend was watching. Nigel knew it. He could hear him almost gagging, while hearing me laughing my bloody head off. The more he begged, the harder I laughed. The harder I laughed, the harder he cried and begged, but yet, Nigel LOVED it.

Nigel loved the bathroom control. That was set for once a week. I called it "Weeing Wednesdays". He was always up for a challenge, and he would get them He'd text me, call me and Skype me, as well as emailing me, etc. We'd even send things through the mail to each other. I must say, as gross and disgusting as he was, he was A LOT of fun. LOVED it, but had nightmares at the same time...LOL

Every slave/client I have or had is different. Not ONE is the same, and therefore, I set it as such. I have the same personality, however the description of what I get them to do is different. There are some similarities with SOME things, but not all. The harder stuff is different for each one.

I like both long term and temporary, as variety is great. Getting to know each and every person who comes and goes is a privilege and allows me the opportunity to become more knowledgeable about what I can do for people, despite how strange it is. I thoroughly enjoy it.

Though it is late, welcome!

How are things going now? Do you have any interesting stories to share?

Thank you for sharing her links!

I'm more interested in reading actual stories about what you have done for her, and vice versa. It's nice for both Mistresses and slaves to know of other experiences, as it is an important part to grow and learn.

Please share.


Unpleasantly,
MistressBella