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Sub Slave Intros / Looking for a True Financial Dominant

« on: May 12, 2017, 02:23:09 AM »

I am seeking to be owned by a True Financial Dominant.

If you are interested please send me an email. jdcryts@gmail.com

Thank You.

Financial Domination Discussion / Black Lives Matter and Financial Domination. A Connection?

« on: July 15, 2016, 01:58:42 AM »

One may ask with this topic: "What does the Black Lives Matter Movement have to do with Financial Domination?"

If you are a Money Slave or a Financial Dominant who is also into the racial domination interest their can be a connection.

For example: If you are a White Money Slave who has a particular interest in Black Financial Dominants (Myself included), the Black Lives Matter Movement can be interesting to you.

Granted, Black Lives Matter probably has no connection to Financial Domination and the leaders of the BLM Movement probably have no idea of the FD interest. If they did they probably would have a very negative view of the FD interest.

However, for those of us involved in the Financial Domination interest we can incorporate our own form of Black Lives Matter.

1. Black Financial Dominants can seek White Slaves. Black FD's can, Journal, Blog, VLOG, Tweet, Post and /or write specifically of their interest in owning White Slaves.

2. Black Financial Dominants can assertively and aggressively seek White Slaves to Breed with and reproduce. Thus producing Mulatto Offspring.

3. Those of us White Money Slaves can try to find ways to enhance our submission to our Black Financial Dominants. Example: Producing more income for them in maximum levels.

4. Support the idea of Interracial relationships. In particular, Relationships of White Slaves owned by Black Owners. (Generally a further point of the same idea as #2).

5. Hope that the BLM Movement would move in the direction of protesting and stating that they want to Own White Slaves. Then draw back from the idea of protesting against so called "Unfair Treatment" by the Police and various Government Authorities.

Granted the BLM Movement is mostly a bunch of illogical, and contradictory beliefs, ideas and actions. Much of it based on faulty findings, bad research, a flawed contradictory philosophy, Downright nonsense and outright lies. However, within the Financial Domination interest we should support and encourage our own distinct form of Black Lives Matter.

Financial Domination Discussion / Voting for those in the Financial Domination Interest. Free Advice for FD's.

« on: June 26, 2016, 09:09:53 PM »

This topic will possibly also be located in the Political Forum since it does involve to some degree Political Discussion. This Topic is justifiably located here due to that it is also primarily a element in the practice of the art of True Financial Domination.

It is likely if you are a True Financial Dominant who happens to also own the more intelligent and educated Money Slaves you probably notice (If you are also at least average in intelligence) Which BTW. Being a True FD does require at least some degree of at least average intelligence.

Anyway, if you as a True FD own Money Slaves who are at least moderately intelligent and who are educated. You probably notice that your Money Slave does address topics related to Politics and Current Events. How should you as a True FD handle those conversations?

1. You likely would be seen as impressive if you can engage your money slave in political discussion. What that generally means as a True FD who owns such Money Slaves is this: You should direct, and in fact order how your Slave Votes and how your Slave thinks politically. This may mean having to alter how your Slave forms Political Opinion. This can at times be a difficult task. Say, especially if you as a True FD hold a Liberal Political Position and your Slave is more on the Libertarian or Conservative side of the Political spectrum.

Lets face some reality here: Most True Money Slaves will likely be Conservative or Libertarian. If you are as True FD are Liberal or Libertarian this could be challenging for you. You want to exercise your authority over your Slave(s). So to do that you must order how your Slave Votes.

2. Do not tolerate your Slaves disobeying you. Orders how a Slave Vote is just that: Your Orders to your Slave. If your Slave challenges you you should take that as a challenge of your authority and influence of that Slave. Granted, this may be a gradual process. But, you as True FD need to be confident that you have the authority to make life decisions for your Slave. Having a Slave Vote differently then how you would want to vote should be seen as a affront to how you think and form opinions. Thus very offensive to you. Do not allow your Slaves to Vote in elections contrary to how you would Vote.

So what about the U.S Presidential Election of 2016?

Being that the premise of True Financial Domination is not much seen in the U.S Presidential Election. Neither of the Major Party Candidates are supporters of Financial Domination. it becomes a bit of a challenge for us in the FD Interest of how and who to Vote for.

One important area is if you are into Racial Domination as a enhancer to Financial Domination such as I am, personally would think one major area would be on Immigration. As a Money Slave and who also has a very high preference for Non White Financial Domination. With a particular preference for Black, East Asian and Latina Financial Dominants the topic area of Free and Open Immigration comes to importance. That being the case I would look to a the Political Candidate who is most likely to be lenient on the topic of Immigration. That being the case since Donald Trump has been quite vocal on Stopping or Heavily Restricting Undocumented Immigration I would tend to support the Democrat Hillary Clinton,

So if your are a True Financial Dominant at this time those of us in the Financial Domination interest should support Hillary Clinton for U.S President.

3. If you are a True Financial Dominant you should post Tweets, post Forums, DM's, Blog Entries and VLOGS that you as a True FD endorse Hillary Clinton and that you are ordering your Slaves to Vote Likewise.

BTW. This is a great topic for those True FD's from U.K, Canada, E.U etc who own U.S Slaves. A great opportunity to exercise authority and have a influence on the U.S Election by ordering how your U.S Slave Votes. This is even more important if you own Slaves in the so called "Battleground States" Pennsylvania, Ohio, New Jersey, Virginia, North Carolina, Florida, Kentucky, Michigan, Wisconsin, Minnesota, Colorado, Texas, New Mexico, Arizona, Nevada and even Washington State.

Financial Domination Discussion / More Free Advice. To FD's from a lifelong $ Slave.

« on: May 13, 2016, 02:31:42 AM »

Hello.

Another lesson on how to make sure you avoid the trap of becoming a fake financial dominant.

1. If you refuse to take advice from a Money Slave on how to be a True Financial Dominant., and more so if you refuse to take the advice of a lifelong experienced Money Slave you are likely a Fake Financial Dominant. If that is you I can guarantee every True FD and every real Money Slave would prefer you to leave the FD Interest. Maybe try the Sugar Baby Sites. That is where the real big money is anyways.

2. If you think you will get a lot of money for a long time you are not a True FD. Most True FD's have probably no more than a few real Money Slaves. Some may have only one real Money Slave. Since almost all Money Slaves are married and have families they obviously would have living expenses. The result: Limited funds to send to a FD. Also since many money slaves are not aggressive go getters they are likely not among the higher income levels. They probably have no more than a middle class income. So if you are a True FD you would know that and probably would expect some money. However, in reality you probably would not collect any more than maybe $500.00 a month each from even your long/life term Money Slaves. If you can get $1,000.00 a month or more from your life term Slave you probably are the exception. However, if you get about three loyal and consistent long/life term slaves you probably can do very well just as a True FD. I would say in reality most FD's probably do not get over $50.00 a week average from each of their owned slaves.

3. Stop using the word "Pay Pig". Look here is some truth. If you are a True FD you cannot be paid to be a True FD. A Money Slave cannot Pay You. The reason is if you own a Money Slave the money your Slave produces should already be considered your money. The Slave is to inform you of his income and you try to assist your Slave in determining his living expenses so as to ensure you get your maximum $. You need to stop thinking you are being paid. As you cannot pay yourself from money that is already your money. Get the Terms: Pay Me and Pay Pig out of your vocabulary.

4. Know what you are doing. You do not need to be mean and nasty. Have some class. Get rid of Penis Pics.

5. You as a dominant cannot have a Alpha. If you do, that makes you a Beta. You would be the submissive to a Dominant Man. You as a True FD should be appalled at the idea of a dominant man. You should prefer submissive men. You cannot have a Cuckold Relationship unless your Slave is your Husband or Long Term S/O. (Which is a stretch for real cuckolds BTW).

More free advice to come.

Happy Times!

Financial Domination Discussion / Why is the Chastity (CBT) Interest not a True Financial Domination element?

« on: April 13, 2016, 02:17:12 AM »

Chastity. The so called Chastity interest. Or as some might call it CBT or the Key Holder type Dommes.

The Key Holder Domme supposedly has a Key mailed to her or given to her by a so called "Slave" who puts his Penis into a lock type device which supposedly prevents erections or masturbation. The Key Holder Domme supposedly then holds the key for a predetermined amount of time or some form of payment agreement is fulfilled. In some cases the so called domme wears the key as a part of necklace, bracelet, anklet etc.

I have always been skeptical of these types of relationships within the FD interest. Often very critical of them.

The reasons of my skepticism are multiple. But some of the more observable reasons are based on a few factors.

Of all the so called "Chaste Slaves" or those in the so called "CBT" (Cock, Ball Torture), interest, of the men within that interest all seem to give me the impression of being very sexual. Which to me would be contradictory to the whole notion of being chaste. You would think someone who is Chaste, or even Celibate the last thing a true Chaste or Chastity practitioner would be found on is a Adult Material Website, Blog, Forum etc. I mean if your Chaste why would you be on a site that is clearly adult related material? It makes no logical sense to do that and contradicts the whole idea if you are indeed chaste. If you are Chaste simply abstain from any sexual related material.

A similar analogy would be like putting an Alcoholic inside a liquor store and telling him not to drink the Alcohol. You would think eventually the alcoholic will sneak a drink somewhere and somehow. The same logic would be someone claiming he is into chastity then involves himself with adult sexually explicit material. Lets face it. Talking about your Penis being locked in a Cage is a sexual topic! Since that is the case, it is not Chastity. The exception would be unless you are in total abstinence from anything sexual related.

A True Practitioner of Chastity would abstain and would not be on a Adult Material website, Forum, Blog etc and thus would not be in communication with a Key Holder type Domme.

Some may claim to be truly into chastity as way to be submissive. If that is your belief then why not go all the way? Why not prove you are truly into chastity? Prove it by being castrated.

Look: True FD is a real relationship. If you are a True FD then you will seek a real relationship with your slave. And by a real relationship it will be lifelong. And being that it is a real, lifelong relationship you would practice intimacy in the relationship. Which is how you truly own a Slave. Thus that being the case, if you are able to you should be reproducing to symbolize your relationship is lifelong. Even if just a Pseudo type Marriage.

Totally contradictory to the Chastity interest. If you are into Chastity you cannot be practicing True FD. The notions contradict each other.

This also goes for the so called "Small Penis Humiliation interest or the so called "Small Penis Tax" A True FD wants a slave who she can utilize to reproduce. So the last thing a True FD wants is a Slave with a small Penis. (Small meaning Flaccid, and incapable of Vaginal Penetration).

Post comments below.

Financial Domination Discussion / How to be a True Financial Dominant. The Truth.

« on: March 31, 2016, 01:18:07 AM »

1. Know you are a Financial Dominant. What that means is: Be confident that you are a True Financial Dominant.

2. Consider any money you receive as a Financial Dominant is money that rightfully is your money. That being the case you cannot be paid to be a Financial Dominant. Stop using the "Pay Me" Term.

3. You must seek True Real Money Slaves. Not the fake or wannabes. But, real submissive's who feel a need to serve you. Get off those Cam Show sites! They are not FD!

4. You must only want real life term relationships with your slaves. You must be willing to meet, form a real relationship and possibly even breed with them. This is counter to the Chastity (Key holder) type Dommes. If you are into Chastity or demand Chaste Slaves you are not practicing True FD. if you have a so called "Chaste" (Chastity) Slave or demand chastity your so called Chastity Slave would be living as a celibate eunuch. Thus should not be interested in any kind of activity with Women. Chastity is not True FD! As it is contradictory to the whole idea of a sexual relationship. Get it right!

5. You must be willing to meet in person your slaves. If you are terrified of your Slaves or you fear your Slaves it is because you have no control over your slave. Thus you in reality do not own that slave. Which then means you are not a True Financial Dominant.

6. If you are able, you must be willing to breed with your slave. Breeding is the only way to guarantee that your absolute commitment to be a True FD and for such a relationship to be life long and breeding (If you are able) is the only way to guarantee that your FD relationship is for life. Get off Birth Control!

7. You must communicate. If you hate communicating the FD interest is not for you. Just as in any relationship communication is a must. In fact, with a long distance FD relationship you must be willing to maintain the relationship. And you do that by communicating. You must have 24/7 access to your Slave and vice versa and be able to communicate 24/7 when it is reasonable.

8. You must be able to know basic information about your Slave. In a FD Relationship you must know your Slave income and assets. You should also be able to have at least some access to your Slave income and accounts. This includes Account Passwords. However, this can be tricky as you must be trusted by your slave and you must also trust your slave to give you correct and accurate income information.

9. Do not allow your Slave /Sub to send you Penis Pics. Penis Pic senders are simply Preverts. If you have Penis Pics in your Profiles and Blogs. Delete them. This includes the so called Small Penis Tax which many U.K Fake FD's post. Instagram is full of them.

More to come.

Financial Domination Discussion / Racial Domination. Incorporated into a Financial Domination relationship.

« on: February 20, 2016, 04:35:07 AM »

As a a White Money Slave I have always had a very high preference for non White Financial Dominants. Mostly, for Black, East Asian and Hispanic Financial Dominants. When I refer to East Asian Financial Dominants the reference is mostly to FD's of Korean, Chinese, Philippine, Taiwan, Vietnamese, Laotian, Thai, Cambodian, Burmese and maybe East Indian and Sri Lankan heritage FD's.

Though I have at times served White FD's, I have always found my preference is for the Non White FD's. Especially my preference for Black FD's. I have always found that to me, a Black FD who knows how to be a True FD can enhance my need and desire to be in service to her. Combined with my belief in Black Supremacy and a combined belief that Whites should be slaves to Blacks makes that interest for me a lot higher.

However, despite my preference for Black FD's. I have not had much long term success with Black FD's. Just in my own experience of the Black FD's I have served they tend to be lazy, indifferent. distant and detached and at times to me they seem very disinterested in the practice of the art of FD.

The Asian FD's I have experienced seem to be of a very cold personality. Though tend to be more educated.

Hispanic FD's seem to be absent minded and tend to prefer very short term FD relationships. Sort of like the Insta Domme who wants to be paid then disappear.

I know of White FD's who are like the above as well, Nonetheless. I still think a Black FD has a unique ability to enhance my submissive nature. The problem is in finding a Black FD who I feel knows what she is doing and who know how to a be True FD.

In any case, my preference remains for Black FD's. Maybe it is because in my my mind I prefer the look of Mulatto offspring that should result in such a relationship.

Any thoughts on the subject of racial domination incorporated into a financial domination relationship?

Financial Domination Discussion / Should Financial Dominants order how their Slave(s) Vote?

« on: February 14, 2016, 02:46:13 AM »

Once again in the United States it is election season. The year 2016 is a Presidential election year. Not only for President but also elections for the House of Representatives. And in many U.S States elections for Governor and U.S Senator. Their are also local elections and votes on referendums.

Being that Financial Domination generally involves the Financial Dominant instructing, ordering or at the very minimum, being some sort of influence in the life of her owned slave. Should a Financial Dominant order how her slave(s) vote in elections?

In my opinion a True Financial Dominant should do just that. However, what about a True FD who is a True FD who has never voted and has very little or even just a marginal interest in the election process? I have been in the FD interest basically all my life and I can tell you of all the FD's I have seen come and go. Especially among the Insta Dommes, very few of them have any such interest. Granted, their have been some True FD's who do express a Political interest. However, they tend to be the rare exception. Lets face it: Most FD's are very self centered and narcissistic. If they think a issue does not directly benefit them that they cannot visually see they usually do not have any such interest to be involved or to form an opinion on.

A second lets face it: Most claimed FD's probably would fail a Middle School Level Civics Test. They probably are not even Registered to Vote.

Personally, I think the True FD's who do know politics and participate in the election process show they have a higher level of intelligence and know the issues.

So for me, I would prefer a True FD who can order me how to vote. To me that is what True Submission to a Dominant is in real practice.

Also if you are a foreign FD with U.S Money Slaves that is a big way you can prove your authority and dominance over your slaves by ordering how they vote.

In summary:

If you are a True Financial Dominant and you know you are weak in the area of current events, political issues, elections, etc. If you want to attract the real good, quality money slaves who would stay with you for life. The money slaves who are involved in politics, who have an interest in those current events are probably much more loyal, much more stable and less preverted then most. Those are the quality slaves who will keep adding to your Bank Account for years to come. Those are the kinds of slaves who genuinely have an interest in you.

You will attract them by practicing FD with class. Know current events. Read up on politics. Read economic news etc. If you want good quality slaves you have to be of a good, sound quality too.

Financial Domination Discussion / A review: Findoms.com

« on: February 07, 2016, 02:07:22 PM »

Please bear in mind. This is only a review of the website known as findoms.com. This is only my personal opinion of the site findoms.com. It is only based on my own reviews and my own thoughts on the site. You may have other opinions of findoms.com. If so you are invited to reply in the comments.

Being that I have been involved in the FD interest basically all my life I have seen FD Blogs, Forums and Websites come and go. For example: Their was once a site called My Financial Domination Site. (MFDS) That site went off line a few years ago. Before that in the early 2000s up to about 2005, their was a popular FD Forum site called Financial Slavery . Net

In my own opinion FS. Net Was probably the best on the FD interest. Not a single FD Forum, Site or Blog site has yet matched it. FS. Net was by far not perfect and had issues with trolls and the hostility as well. But, IMO it was the best so far. FS. Net went of line about 2005 after the Web Site owner understandably so, became disillusioned with the FD interest.

Fin Doms.com in my opinion is a fake FD site. A home for Preverts, Freak, Morons, Knuckleheads, Penis Pic Senders and the like. It is not a FD site and I have yet to see a True FD on that website. It has low class and disrespects critics of the topics. If you are a True FD if you have a profile on the Findoms .com Site I suggest leaving that site. You are not doing the FD interest any good.

My personal dislike of Findoms .com is the high amount of Penis Pics. It seems a high percentage of the Male Profiles involve some kind of a Male Penis in the Profile image. That is why I call Fin Doms . Com: The Penis Pic Senders Paradise Website.

Fin Doms .com = Fake Financial Domination.

Financial Domination Discussion / Another Truth about the Financial Domination Interest.

« on: January 21, 2016, 02:14:54 AM »

I have often wondered about the interest that Financial Dominants and those who claim to be Financial Dominants about their sincerity of wanting and the ability to be a financial dominant.

Obviously some of the Cam Show Entertainers who role play the act of a financial dominant will freely admit they are simply doing cam shows in the FD Genre because their is a demand for that role play. So obviously those Cam Show entertainers are not sincere about being a financial dominant.

We who have been in the Financial Domination Art for some time even know that their are a lot of those claiming to be financial dominants who are out to simply make a quick buck and know they are not a a financial dominant and not even possessing a dominant personality. However, they think if a guy wants to give them some money to call them a loser they will do it. That is, for a price.

But, what about those who claim to be financial dominants? Those who consider themselves to be a financial dominant and will practice the art of financial domination?

I am a big time critic of the fake and pseudo FD's. And will often claim that almost all of FD is fake. I would even say greater than 99% of what is said to be FD is in reality not FD.

Being that I have experience in the FD world of over 45 years I believe I can correctly state that the best financial dominant barely reaches the standard of being a True FD.

Why do I think that?

The main reasoning is that Women by their very nature in almost all cases cannot be natural in a dominant setting. Further, they likely are only acting dominant only because some man wants them to take on the role of a dominant Woman. The point is most women are not capable of being a FD on their own.

Here is the Truth: Men are what make the FD interest. Women in their natural state cannot be financial dominant. They operate on a very relational aspect of their brain. It is the way they are created.

So can a woman be a True FD? In almost all cases the answer is: No. However, a Woman who may have some dominant characteristics can be a True FD. I would just say the probable percentage of Woman who claim to be involved in the FD interest who are indeed naturally dominant I think is probably 1 in 5,000. If even that!

Any thoughts?

Financial Domination Discussion / It's a Man!

« on: January 16, 2016, 12:22:23 AM »

One of the oldest fake financial domination tricks in the book are men pretending to be Female Financial Dominants. It is quite amusing to see them pop up (No pun intended).

We who have been in the financial domination interest for a number of years have seen a wide multitude of fake financial dominants come and go along with their scams. But, the idea of a man pretending to be a female financial dominant has got to be the most common and easily recognized fraud within the FD interest.

In reality, probably not all too common. However, I can remember the days of the old AOL BDSM so called Fin Dom chat rooms were almost a majority of men pretending to be Woman Financial Dominants. Back in those days the online world of FD was a still relatively new activity. The internet was still young and internet users were quite inexperienced. Fake and wannabe money slaves also ventured into the FD scene thinking they could convince a girl to show them some promising to send them a few $. Since Web Cams were not yet built into Desk Top PC's and the Web Cams that were out there were at best grainy and expensive. To make money as a fake woman FD the man impersonating a woman could simply obtain pictures and even sometimes videos from such sites as Russian Mail Order Bride Sites. The fake FD could then build a profile from that. Some inventive and imaginative men could develop a whole personality with the fake profile and make a whole Yahoo Group based on this non existent phantom profile. If the guy was good he could even splice videos and make it appear in the video the woman would appear and appear to be communicating in a web cam. You have to give them credit, some of those guys were really good. And probably made some good money with this fake persona.

Eventually probably by about 2002 people got smarter and could know the fake and started demanding proof pictures and proof videos. The fake business soon disappeared for the most part . Only coming back once in a while and soon realizing the clients were a step ahead of them.

Now they seem to be coming back. And with a vengeance. The mass influx of fake websites and fake FD's coming from the U.K and new generation of millennial U.S fake doms have lately been feeding a new batch of fakery. Some of which even would surprise long term FD Veterans.

It is quite easy to overcome the fakes.

1. Never send money to a profile no matter how enticing the talk and the pictures are. Until you have absolute proof of the identity of the FD.

2. Realize that no True FD if she is a True FD would be bothered by proving herself. In fact, you would think a True FD wants to prove she is a True FD.

3. Be persistent. We have to fight these fakes whenever they appear. They are an onslaught to the FD interest. Insist on proof. Do not send money to anyone not proven.

Domme Introductions / Just a Recommended Suggestion for FD's from a $ Slave.

« on: January 11, 2016, 03:15:04 AM »

Hello.

If you are Financial Dominant I would like to help you with your Introductions. As a life long money slave I would like to suggest these things for a Financial Dominant who desire to introduce herself in order to attract new prospects.

1. Get a You Tube Account. Post a Introduction Video explaining who you are and your interest. However, be aware that You Tube does not allow adult themed videos. So keep it PG Rated. You Tube has been known to delete You Tube Accounts with links to Adult sites. So do not include any link to a Cam Show site.

2. Start a Blog. Post your Pictures and Videos and a more detailed written description of yourself. Again, add your interest and what you are seeking in a money slave. Be original, be honest and be sincere.

3. I would suggest a Twitter Account and/or a Instagram Account . You can make your Twitter or Instagram Private if you want. However doing so makes your account accessible only to your selected money slaves and fans to have access to you. Always remember to keep your account active. I recommend to Post something at least once a week.

4. Be willing to answer prospect questions.

5. In your Introductions post how a prospect can contact you and learn more about you.

6. You do not necessarily need your own web site. But, if you do get a web site make sure you update it on a regular basis. Always be aware that for some money slaves may not prefer FD's with a web site as they may think you are enslaving a lot of money slaves. Some money slaves prefer FD's with only a small number of slaves. So unless you intend to own a lot of slaves a web site probably is not a good idea. A Blog, Twitter, Instagram and You Tube can work just as well. Also be aware that most FD Web Sites are maintained on Adult Web Site Servers. Which for some money slaves may also be a distraction.

7. Always be mindful that how you write and express yourself to a target audience. Meaning if you write and post sexual explicit material you may very well attract the more sexual themed responses. Which also may distract the more subdued real money slaves.

Trust me. As a money slave very few prospects will send you any money without some kind of verification of who you are If a prospect ask you for nude pictures you are probably not communicating with a real money slave. A real money slave who you do not yet own will not send you penis pics or ask you to send nude images of yourself.

You should write some kind of your Philosophy of Financial Domination. Meaning what you think FD is.

If you make it difficult for a slave to contact you most slaves will just say you are too difficult and will just contact some other FD who will.

Do not always think a prospect who does not send you money right away is a Time Waster. Most real money slaves need to know who you are and can establish some sort of communication with you. It may take days, a week or even months. If you are a True FD you will know fairly quick just how the prospect writes to you if he is seriously interested.

Realize: If you own a Money Slave you will have to trust your Money Slave. That means you will have to allow him to send your money to your Bank via Online Transfer. Very few real money slaves can tolerate sending your money via a third party. Forget the Gift Rocket Crap. No real money slave will want to send you money that way.

If you cannot trust a money slave the FD interest may not be for you.

Financial Domination Discussion / Are Financial Dominants victims of sexual abuse?

« on: January 10, 2016, 03:45:36 AM »

According to almost all accounts the vast majority of Sex Workers have reported that they were abused sexually. A good number of that % have claimed that they were abused sexually as minors.

Most studies have also concluded that Women who enter the Adult/Sex Industry do so as a result of that sexual abuse and relive the experience within the acts of the Adult and Sex Industry.

Some Financial Dominants especially those FD's who have connections to fetish web sites and produced sexual based cam shows for example will often freely admit they are sex workers.

So that begs the question: Are Financial Dominants victims of sexual abuse? Further are financial dominants being sexually exploited by their money slaves?

This question made me think. Obviously as a money slave I would prefer to be in service to a financial dominant who can meet my personal preferences and practice them. So am I as a Money Slave in reality exploiting my financial dominant who would know I likely would not want to be in her service if she did not meet my own personal preferences? Such as in how she looks, acts, her personality etc.

Being that almost all of what is claimed to be financial domination is in reality not financial domination I would tend to believe that most of the claimed financial dominants are indeed victims of sexual abuse and thus would probably not want to be financial dominants if not for the reliving of their past sexual abuse.

Any thoughts on this topic? Please share your comments.

Other Fetishes / Fetish Interest

« on: January 02, 2016, 05:19:00 AM »

I often incorporate my other interest into my primary interest of Financial Domination:

1. Pregnancy Fetish: I have a big and growing (No pun intended) interest in Pregnant in particular, Pregnant FD's. I have only been able to experience it a very few times in my life but, one of the most pleasant and relaxing as well as probably the most arousing thing to do is to rub a pregnant Woman tummy. More so, if she is a Pregnant FD that I am in service to. Personally, I would like to see a lot more FD's become pregnant and reproducing.

2. Legs: I consider myself a Legs Freak. I refer to nice legs as: Money Maker Legs. For me, being able to rub them is easily worth some big money. If I am in service to a FD and she allows me to rub her legs telling me that as soon as I rub her legs I would acquire a $50,000.00 Debt to her and be bound to her for life I would think that as a bargain deal. I would just hope the relationship would last for life so I can work on that debt and be happy about it. FD's should emphasize more on their legs.

3. Cheerleader Fetish: I think every FD should have at least one real Cheerleader Uniform. FD's should be the Cheerleader of their money slaves using that natural god given nurturing characteristic to cheer on their slaves. Combined with that legs and pregnancy fetish that to me is a binding forever action.

Financial Domination Discussion / Anxiety of those in the FD interest.

« on: January 02, 2016, 04:05:24 AM »

To be a money slave or a financial dominant in the true sense of the term requires a unique personality. Both Financial Dominants and Money Slaves can suffer from bouts of anxiety and even depression and even maybe a feeling of low self worth within the FD interest about issues within and involving the FD Interest.

A Financial Dominant may have an overwhelming concern that her money slave is not disclosing income or assets. Maybe the FD may think her Slave is secretly sending money to another FD. Maybe the FD may think her slave is secretly communicating with another FD. That anxiety may get even worse if the money slave is communicating with another FD and that other FD is targeting the Money Slave seeking that money Slave to be a slave to her. Encouraging the Money Slave that his present FD does not meet his expectations or pointing out flaws with that FD. These efforts can be subliminal or even very direct. For some FD's the need to control a number of Money Slaves may be overwhelming her sense of ethics that she would not take a Slave of another FD. Lets face it. For some FD's they have that massive need of control and that need can be overwhelming for some.

Financial Dominants may also have anxiety over the Money Slave cannot seem to find a better job or income. Granted, to be a True FD a True FD is more interested in the control and obedience and the service, loyalty and dedication her slave gives her. However, the FD may believe her slave is underpaid and wants him to be more assertive to receive promotion or she may believe her slave should be higher paid. Or maybe even the Slave cannot find a job. Those issues can also cause anxiety for a FD.

Another anxiety is that FD's may not be able to relax due to transfer methods. For example did the Slave transfer her money to the correct account? Why is it taking so long to get her money? Very real anxiety for a FD.

For Money Slaves. At least for me, one of my biggest anxieties is a lack of communication. Other reasons for anxiety may be: Why does not my FD respond to me? Is my FD being honest? Is my FD misleading me? Is my FD in reality just another fake FD?

Another anxiety a money slave may face is: Does my FD appreciate my efforts to serve her?

What about the feeling:

1. I do not feel as though my FD knows how to be a FD.

2. I feel as though my FD lacks the ability to fully grasp what it means to be a FD.

3. She is disengaged, indifferent, out of touch and/or she does not understand me.

I know those feelings all too well. I have been involved and in contact with probably at least 60 FD's in my lifetime (Granted, maybe many were not True FD's). I know what it is like to be in service to a FD and to have a nagging feeling the FD does not know what she is doing. She cannot even manage her own affairs. How can I expect her to be able to own me and make those necessary ordering of my own life so I can feel like a Real Money Slave?

I have seen very indifferent FD's. Who are reality Lazy. Some may even have a sense of control but, thy may be so lazy they have no interest to do anything. Except maybe stay home and play video Games all day long.

Maybe the FD only interest is in her own personal visual surroundings.

I for one as a White Slave with a high preference for Black and Non White FD's have found that seems to be a big problem among many Black FD's. I am only referring to my own personal experience with the Black FD's that I have encountered. So do not take my description as a stereotype. Just in my own personal observations almost without exception of the FD's I have come in contact with who are Black always seem to be very indifferent. They have little interest for anything outside of their own personal sphere of influence. They hate travelling or visiting anything such as natural forms. Have a a very low appreciation of art and have almost no or very little interest t in adventures and viewing new things. I of course am only referring to those Black FD's I have associated with. However, I seen some of the writings of other Black FD's and I have seen those indicators as well. To me, being a White Slave with a high preference for Black FD's and being that I have a very active imagination and a high sense of adventure and a need for viewing the "Good" cause me some level of high anxiety. Especially seeing that I see a high degree of indifference and unenthusiastic, and disengaged Black FD's.

Another anxiety is communication. I have been labeled by some FD's as being "Needy" Even a past FD of mine accused me of being "needy" on at least a couple occasions. That is another issue that causes me anxiety. When a FD uses the term; Needy as labeled to a Money Slave to me means the relationship is going to end very soon. Communication in a FD relationship just like any other non FD relationship to be secure and successful must involve open and accessible communication. Granted some Money Slaves might be overwhelming for a FD . Even still as soon as the FD considers her Slave to be "Needy" the relationship will soon die or should just end then and there. I personally do not think I am "needy" I just need a FD who can be receptive to my reports to her, be accessible, answer and reply to communication. As well the FD should have genuine interest in the well being of her slave. If the FD does not enjoy communicating with her slave she might as well just end the relationship then and there.

Those are some things I think can cause anxiety within the FD Interest.

But how do you fix it? How can someone involved in the FD interest find relief from anxiety?

If the first issue is that if your Slave or FD causes you anxiety probably best to let the FD or Money Slave know it. If the FD or Money Slave is not willing to relieve the anxiety maybe a change of relationship may be the best option. Maybe the two of you are not compatible? Maybe you as a Money Slave overwhelm the FD and the FD feels you are burden? So maybe best to end the relationship.

Granted, for us Money Slaves we have an advantage in the FD interest. Hundreds of claimed FD's are out there. Granted almost all are fake FD, Scammers and Frauds. However, with a little bit of research and maybe some effort we generally can easily find a available FD. Or at least a FD that might attract our interest. It may take a transfer just so the FD may think you are serious. But generally we as money slaves have that little bit of advantage.

For FD's Maybe try to get to know your Slave. Know his interest. Know what makes your sick tick. If it is reasonable and something you can also enjoy maybe your relationship can be successful.

I as a money slave enjoy the appreciation of my FD and when I know my FD is sincerely happy with my efforts then it motivates me to be even more willing to go all out for my FD.

If your slave overwhelms you or you feel your slave is too much work maybe you should end the relationship. The money no matter how much it is if the relationship is too difficult for you the best option may be to tell your Slave or prospect that you are not interested in their service. In reality, most Slaves are at least average in intelligence. If they know or even sense you are not serious about being a FD and are principally only concerned about the $ do you really think your Slave would stick around after a new, prettier FD shows up? No need to subject to a future hardship. Just end it. Tell the Slave you are not interested is the best option.